In a SUPER tough situation here.?

Question

My parents recently got divorced, I have a twin brother, A 10 year old brother, and an 8 year old sister who suffers from diabetes and down syndrome. My mom just left and said " i left money, survive on your own" and she only left 20$. My dad went to live in Cali. [We live in NY] with his Girlfriend and her 3 kids whom i've never met before. I can't speak to relatives, because most of them live far,far,far away and i hardly see them except for holidays. My little brothers crying saying it's all his fault when it's not. I hate to see such a struggling little guy; out of nowhere my parents just said " We're getting a divorce" not even explaining to us why. I think kids SHOULD know because it's their parents and they have a right to know when somethings going on.I'm 13 years old. I can't take this,Please help me!

Answer 1

That's what we call abandonment buddies and you should probably call the cops.  They'll help you out.

Answer 2

omg that makes me want to cry

i am 13 to

tell your brother that your parents were having Reletionship problems and that you did nothing to make them get a divorice no matter what they say they had three kids its not like she is going to pick one kid and say its your fault

if you can talk to your mom tell her to come back to New York NOW!!!!!! so she can tell him that it had nothing to do with him or anyone except eachother

and tell her to pay more money cause a parent cant expect to get married and have kids and get a divorce and drop you and your brother and sister off on your dads girlfriends house!

Answer 3

Wow that really sucks... call the police because it is your parents' responsibilities to take care of you and they are not allowed to just leave you...

good luck!

Answer 4

This is child abandonment, call the police ASAP!

Answer 5

I hope this is a sincere question...You may not want to do this, because they are your parents and all, but if your mom just left you 4 children alone (especially your sister,  poor kid), you really need to call the police on her.  Now maybe your dad is not aware that your mom has left you all, but if you can get ahold of him somehow and tell him the situation, maybe he can help.  Even if your relatives live far away, I'd still try to get some help from them because it would be better than living with total strangers (for the most part).  In any case, you kids are too young to be left on your own like that, so please call the police or even a church and get someone there to help you!  Even one of your neighbors,your teacher at school, the mailman, ANYONE who you see regularly--if you explain what happened, they would probably be more than happy to help you out.  Good luck!

Answer 6

it's child abandonment. call the police.  

Answer 7

Ummm.... isn't that called child abandonment? You should call the police.

Answer 8

Ask your mom & dad what happen then try to help support your brother.. do more activities together and help each other out.. I do agree that kid should know y they are leaving.. they are not the only ones being hurt.. good luck  

Answer 9

Whoa re you living with right now? You should ask some of your friends' parents to help you out because you shouldn't be looking after your siblings on your own because it's too much responsibility and you might have a nervous breakdown.

Call your parents and tell them to take responsibility for you guys. Pluse some of you are under 18 so you need to have alegal guardian.

Answer 10

I feel really bad for you, i think what you should do is call some services and have you guys put with a relative or someone stable to be with. You guys can't just be  unsupervised. hope this helps.