In an age of changes & advancement in the affairs of women, would you say?

Question

That we are still taught through social conditioning to accept and to learn to live with fear?

Can we ever unhook the safety line and walk unfettered?

Tutoring both women and girls I have noted that many of us are still terrified of things that seem old and tired.

Simple things like trying and failing, preferring to know the outcome before taking a risk, and will not try if others can see them fail

Or girls who are crippled to act for fear of what others MIGHT think.

Small things like the approaching of a man where been rejected is part of the price of been strong, on this score many girls have retreated to the safety of using text, instead of verbal communication

Academically there are and have been massive improvements that makes me proud.

Yet socially are women still the same ‘ole, same ‘ole?

Is petty fear still our constant companion?

Put yourself in 'THEIR' place, could you advise them on a better & winning approach to modern living?

Have you overcome this?

Answer 1

Women are more sensitive and at the same time physically weaker than men . it hurts them emotionally when they are rejected or their offers turned down . women are good and can't understand why men are so mean and why they take advantage of their physical and emotional weakness .

men will use their natural physical strength to stop them from socializing with other men and always keep them under their  control . there are things that men can't understand either . why would a girl be in public and dress in a very seductive way ? why can't she see that her show off is making men excited sexually even if she is a mother with children ? why can't she just have casual s*x with anybody she likes even if she doesn't know him very well anywhere she is ? it can be in a shop or in the back of a car . she can do it even 10 times a day with ten different men in 10 different places and all are so hungry for  her. women just need the courage to do it . they don't need to be afraid if they knew what  they are doing . women need to be out from the confinements men put them on them .

Answer 2

TIC is right.  I would also add, that you could quite easily substitute girls*/ women for boys/men.  They have petty fears too.

*Why are males called men at 18 and females remain 'girls' way after the age of 18.  Therein lies some answers I think.

-46 year old Girl!

Answer 3

your question assumes that men and women have the same appetite for risk, they don't. women are programed to nest build, we can't change that fact

you are not exactly breaking the mold yourself. your are a teacher asking how to better nurture.....?

sorry to be blunt.

Answer 4

The cause of women would be helped if girls stopped dressing like hookers and started aspiring to a meaningful role in society rather than aspiring to be like pneumatically-chested air-heads such as Jordan.

Is it any wonder so many men regard women as s*x objects when clowns like Jordan and Jodie Marsh are leading a merry band of girls to dress and act exactly like s*x objects???

(no offence to any of the girls in your avatar of course)

Answer 5

Confidence is key.  They need to know that rejection and failure is always going to be a part of life.  

To conquer fear I generally need to pump myself up for it like going on stage.  I don't look at fear as holding me back but to give adrenaline.  If we never risk anything then we will never get!

I know that sometimes I feel like you mentioned in your question but I always remind myself that I can do as much as any man can and in fact I could probably do more and I have proven this to my fellow male students in univeristy who seem to be behind the times!  

xx

Answer 6

This is the kind of question that women in general would shy away from, so you would not get many answering.

And again it comes back to fear

I find the text thing annoying, as it is dishonest, the more a girl text and text the more fake she usually is!!

Answer 7

we have also the similar discussion yesterday

Answer 8

I would give the same advice that I would give to feminists. Stop obsessing about your own s*x. It is so selfish and down right boring.