In college life if there will be in girl friend and love affairs than it will be benefical for studies or not?

Question

i had just taken admission in philosophy honors

if i will not make any girl friend and keep myself from love affairs etc,than it will be beneficial for my studies and me?

if some one do betrayed in love affair,does it hurts a lot?

give your answer in points like

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5 god bless you all

advice me in that way as you are giving advice to your best friend

Answer 1

Dude....you can mess your life with a failed relationship.  But this is LIFE.  Likely you are better off focussing on STUDYING.  But is this reality?  If you get into a relationship, it can be a natural high and - like any high - you can crash badly if you "come-down" from your high - or crash down due to the failure.  

SOoooo.....You could feel better, or you could mess-up.  One could say that if you become preoccupied with wondering about getting involved in a relationship that that in itself could be something that is conflicting with you getting good grades.  OR you could argue that by getting involved with someone, that your positive emotions and happy state could launch you through your studies.  OR you could argue that if you are in a relationship that you will allow the relationship to take precedence over your studies thus making you fail.  

You need to trust yourself and know what YOU can handle.  You need to be strong IN LIFE IN GENERAL.  Whether you fail in a relationship now or later - it will still create some sort of turmoil in your life.  On the other hand, you may not EVER fail and all could go very well from now till - happier ever after!

What do YOU think?  Do you trust yourself?  Have you been tempted by alcohol/partying, drugs etc - and have you avoided this or partaken with great moderation?????

You need to figure out the best BALANCE of what COULD happen in any of the potential situations.  

Good Luck.

Answer 2

Stay away from extramural activities like girlfriends. Philosophy is difficult enough without girl problems.  And at your age, study is more important. You can of course interrupt your studies by changing nappy's.  :-)

Peace.

Answer 3

You'll be okay - You are supposed to have fun in college.  Have fun, get a girl friend but also study...It helps if you have a girlfriend with the same major - then you can do your hw together.

Just don't do what I did and hook up with your best friends ex...that is more than want to do - yes, it kills a friendship

Answer 4

1. Love affairs are time and energy consuming at a juncture intellectual prowess is best asserted in the classroom. Once studies are completed love will be in abundance and found readily at your door.

2. Hormonal surgences create the need to pursue calamities proving detrimental at this pivotal and penultimate stage in your life. Studies require absolute attention.

3. Love is a tonic conducive to optimum brain performance only ion circumstances wherein man has full and absolute control and awareness of his faculties.

4. The neural and physical formative period of transformation and hormonal growth is the worst time for man to embark upon pleasure pursuits in the form of personal relationships. The objective is peace, at this juncture it is logical to found your peace and bliss in the high performance of intellectual and scholarly output.

5. Love is best employed and gained when man is content, emotionally stable and has gained a modicum of perceptual understanding of the opposing gender.



Good luck in your studies …

Answer 5

gf are just like anyother friend. theres no any problem in  having girl as ur friend. gf doesnt mean only love affairs, yes u can be away from affairs, bcos if they breaks they hurt u a lot

Answer 6

Why can't you have the cake and eat it? You can find a girl friend that is also interested in the subject. Both of you can help each other. Learning together might be easier than by yourself. Good luck.

And yes, betrayal hurts. ALOT.