My friend is going through a situation at home. She feels unappreciated, unloved, and unstable due to her husbands lack of an ability to keep a job. She tries really hard to please everyone else, she puts everyone before herself, and makes sure her families needs are met before her own. She makes sure her husband is satisfied whether she wants to or not, and she feels all used up. She finally told her husband she was done, then after years of marriage, hurt, disappointment, and showering him with love even when he was wrong, she told him she wanted out and the hurt became too much. That is when the husband said he would change for the umpteenth time. She met a man in the same situation at home and he is unappreciated. He does everything his wife could ever ask a man to do: work, cook, clean, take care of the kids, buy her cars, jewelry, clothes, loves on her, and when he asks her, "Why don't you love me anymore?" all she could say was, "Well...". So long story short, the two who were hurt began to look to each other for comfort, and fell in love. I know many people say he is just using her, or she is using him, but he tells her he will help her with her kids, and he offers to buy her gifts and tells her he ginuinely loves her and wishes he met her before he met his wife. To top it all off, she feels the exact same way. Do you feel they are wrong? Has anyone ever been in a situation where this has happened? What is a man or woman to do when they cannot get love or appreciation at home, but they know they have taken vows with someone else? Any answers would be greatly appreciated and maybe I can take them to my friend and give her insight as to what she can or cannot look forward to. Thank you.
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