In love with a sailor, should I tell him everything?

Question

I'm in love with my ex boyfriend. He left for Pensacola, Florida yesterday morning. (He's in the NAVY and i haven't seen him since june 1st, the day before he left for basic.) I'm in Green Bay, Wisconsin. I want to tell him that I'm in love with him, but I don't know if I should considering the situation. We broke up because of the distance, but to me - distance means nothing when someone means so much. I'm not expecting us to get back together right now because the reality is..he's in the navy..and military relationships rarely work out from what I hear. I just want him to know how much I love him, but we've never actually said the "L" word while we were dating

And is it true that a "good sailor has a different girl at every port?" I can't see him being that kind of person. He's incredible and has so many morals.

**I plan on going to Pensacola sometime in mid october. My parents ok'd it and my dad offered to pay for my hotel down there as long as i payed for the plane ticket. I'd wait to tell him everything until I got down there, but I need to discuss this all with him before I go, because I don't know if it's a good idea to visit either.. i don't want to distract him from his main priority right now. But I really do miss him a lot and I really have no idea what to do right now.

Answer 1

In the "Pensacola" questions, your SAME subject came up 19 times about this guy going to Pensacola in the Navy and you're missing him, etc. as of the time I'm writing this.  Some were worded different but still...You asked "Do I sound obsessive and crazy? =/ lol"...What do you think?  Just hang in there. If it's supposed to work out, it will. I'll post my answer over and over, too.

Answer 2

Um... don't expect much from him. This sounds shaky.

I'd make the same choice too

- have some fun times too, while your there!

Sounds more like an adventure - then anything solid.

Answer 3

Aw, well he needs to know!

Just make sure when you get down there that you know exactly where he will be and that you WILL see him, otherwise it was a waste of money and you'll leave more heartbroken than ever.

You should tell him and get it on his mind.

Give him something, or someone, to think about while he's sailing.

Good luck with him, I hope it all works out. [: