In my head..does anyone else do this?

Question

Whenever im friends with a guy, I start to psych myself out into thinking that he likes me or I like him. So as a result, I dont have that many guy friends. I dont know what to do because I really want more guy friends. But I dont know how I can just ignore it. I mean I dont necessarily have proof that they didnt like me or I didnt like them, but im pretty sure its all in my head.

Answer 1

hm i dont do it with ALL guys but i have with a one. =] i really liked him for like a whole year. and i thought he liked me back but he didnt =[ yup i would sya it was all in my head and probably in yours too.  

Answer 2

honestly I used to go through this.. but what I did was just ignore that thought of "oh what if they like me".. but because their a guy and their your friend you automatically think it. Just try and take it slow and get to know them..be yourself and you never know what might come of it..

Answer 3

I tend to do this with most guys, although once a friendship is established I tend to think about whether I like him more than a friend, or whether his actions or affections are actually a way of flirting or liking me. Don't worry, it's not all in your head.

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