In need of guidance......

Question

My fiance had a big bust up with his family and they were really off with him, not wanting anything to do with him and showing very little interest.

Now his brother has called him out of the blue asking us to go round for a drink and acting as if nothing has happened.

my partner has been hurt by his family and i don't like to see him get hurt so i really don't want to go round his bro's as i feel awkward. I am not as good at just 'sweeping things under the carpet'.

how can i get out of this without causing a bust up? any advice???

Answer 1

i think u both should go meet up w/ his brother. maybe they wna fix things. it wont hurt to try and patch things up. hopefully good will come out of it.

Answer 2

go with the flow. maybe this is their way of slowly patching things up. try to remain optimistic towards a happy relationship. If you don't try then your not meeting them halfway. I understand you may have some trepidation due to the sadness of the bust up but everyday is a new day and with every new day comes new opportunities to love and learn.