In need of helpp. relationship question!?

Question

Okay I'm 15...

I'm in a relationship atm. and have been for the last 6 months

Before this 6 months i did have a reputation for being a ..say playa.

but i have changed.

Anyway.. A few weeks ago a boy told me he liked me alot. and he kept trying to get over me and he couldnt get me out of his head.

I thought about this. and i got realyl confused.. if i liked him or not

I have a a brief thing with this lad before.

I cant tell my boyfriend about this as he would..just go extremly mad as he hate this lad as it is.

Do i leave my boyfriend and just be single

or

forget the other lad as he had his chance?

really confused. :(

Answer 1

Frankly, you probably shouldn't be dating anyone.  You liked the other boy just because he confessed that he liked you.  You weren't thinking about him before then, you were just flattered by his preference for you.  

Since you've been a "playa" in the past, you clearly like to get a lot of attention from guys.  There's nothing wrong with that if you're honest with everyone, but you shouldn't toy with people's emotions just to feed your own ego.

If you're not sure you like the other boy, then you probably don't.  If you have trouble staying emotionally faithful to your boyfriend, then you should break up with him.  You might want to spend some time being single and learning how to be not so dependent on male attention.  You're old enough to start figuring out why you crave that attention so much - give it some thought before you enter another relationship.

Answer 2

You might just be flattered by the fact that someone else likes you and by all that this new guys is saying. So it could just be a phase. I would say to stick with your boyfriend for a little longer, see how things play out. If this new guys sees you break up with your boyfriend for him, he may start to think he can get what he wants.

Just stick it out with your boyfriend carry on normally, and after a while if this new guy doens't stop, and you find that you'd rather spend time with him then your bf, or you start to act differently with your bf, then maybe just take a break, tell him your a little confused and you just need some time to yourself to think.  And see if any of the feelings change toward either of them.