In need of some help with confidence in the bedroom?

Question

i have been seeing a guy for a few months and wanted to know how to gain the confidence to try different s*x positions. i am just wondering what advice i can get. thanks a bunch

Answer 1

I recently overcame the whole 'feeling self conscious in bed' feeling. you have just got to realize that you're boyfriend is obviously attracted to you and wants you in bed. it may help to turn off the lights the first couple of times you start trying new stuff.

once you start feeling more comfortable with yourself, you will notice how much better the s*x is. you stop worrying about how uncomfortable you are, and you start paying attention to the intensity of the s*x and the feelings of pleasing yourself and your partner.

Answer 2

If the guy is right for you, you won't feel weird around him at all. My bf would just laugh and tease me if I did something wrong/weird lol.

Answer 3

First of all your confidence has to come from with inside of yourself no one else can give this to you.  Second if you are at ease with your partner you can talk through these things and decide if you start something and you do not like it then it will be time to stop.  As your relationship grows and your secure within the relationship your confidence will also. Just relax and take your time.