In need of some serious marriage advice...!!!!!!!?

Question

I am married and have been for a while....Well the problem is, MY ex has been calling me, He told me he has feelings for me and that he doesn't want to have s*x with me but rub on my body(but I kno otherwise)...Im scared because I have a bad conscious and I feel like thats not rite. I dumped his a** for a reason and now like after 2 years he wants me back. He called my phone and mu husband answered, at first he didnt say nothing...then he ASKED for me, my husband said dont call this phone at all, He called me back later, I answered and now hes talking about hes mad, Which I dont care but the thing is how do I get rid of the ex nicely?....In otha ways I want to let him touch me but I DONT....WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Answer 1

Do you want this man back in your life? There is the answer to your question. He should not have your phone number,block his number. Tell him you are married and want nothing to do with him. If he continues get a restraining order. On the other hand if you want to be with him why are you asking this question?

Answer 2

Next time you talk to him, and that's only if he contacts you, tell him that you can't speak to him anymore. Tell him you're happily married and you refuse to put your marriage in jeopardy just because he suddenly decided he wanted to be with you. You've moved on to bigger and better things and have a husband who loves you very much. Why ruin that for a jerk who hurt you once in your life already?

Answer 3

remenber the reason you got rid of him in the first place just flat out tell him to quit calling you and if anyone is going to be rubbing up on you it will be your husband the man you married and love and you respect yourself and your husband and what you have together to much to mess it up  

Answer 4

There is no being nice here. You tell him your MARRIED and to stop calling you - Bottom line!!!

Who cares if his feelings get hurt???? Your married for crying out loud!

Answer 5

You are married now so forget the ex . Go get your number changed as soon as possible . If you let this continue you are not only going to be causing unnecessary fights between you and your husband but you very well may end up doing some thing really foolish with the ex .

Nip it in the bud !! Now !!!  

Answer 6

Unless you want him back,  tell him straight out,  no thanks.  

Answer 7

Your married any other questions?????

Answer 8

Change your phone number, and under no circumstances to you talk to him.  If you don't want your current marriage to fail, get far away from this ex idiot as possible.

Answer 9

can you say BOOTY CALL? that is all you are to him. avoid his calls, and delete any messages.

Answer 10

Quit talking to him.

Answer 11

DON'T DO IT! Change your number, don't receive his calls. Don't jeopardize your marriage.  

Answer 12

He is your ex for a reason.  Just tell him to leave you alone & stop disrespecting your marriage - you have to stop this immediately - you are in control of this - handle this situation right now!  Good luck!!

Answer 13

the reason that your ex is calling because you are giving him mixed messages.  it's time to get on the same page.  1.  have full disclosure with your husband about what you have talked about and what you have done.  2.  tell the ex not to contact you anymore in any way.  the whole thing about "not wanting to have s*x with you" is a load of bunk and he wants to shag.  plain and simple.  3.  consider marital counseling with your hubby, as if your marriage was up to par, you would not even be considering talking to your ex...let alone contimplating (notice i dont say fantasizing...you have gone beyond that stage and are actively planning to do it.  there's a difference) letting this guy rub you down.

Answer 14

First off you married someone so you owe it to him to be faithful. Honor your man with your loyalty not by cheating on him. Your ex is your ex for a reason and if you wanted to be with him even if it is to only rub your body or have s*x than you shouldn't have got married. If he's been out of your life for 2 years and all of a sudden comes back and you want him again you have a problem. You shouldn't have got married if wanting another mans temps you so much. And your not suppose to let your ex down nicely be rude as he**, tell him you moved on and you have your own life now and that hes not a part of it.

Answer 15

You shouldn't care if you get rid of him nicely?  You should just get rid of him.  What the h**l is the matter with you anyway?