In regards to the question i posted about empathy & your soulmate i have added extra details? ?

Question

if you would like to expand on your answers!

thank you!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080901151833AA5lpwu&r=w

Answer 1

in regards to empathy in the manner of which it is presented, does it not also help to form a stonger bond when both parties have actually in a manner of speaking walked in the others shoes?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IrE6FMpa...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r4dUQgIaX...

Okay so much for walking in the other person's shoes.

The thing about relationships is that you realize that you can not change one another but you can respond sympathetically to one another.

You do not empathize because to do so is to change yourself when you may not really want to. If you do want to then so it should be but have you learned more abot your mate or less about yourself?

It is more sincere to give to the other person's needs or shortcomings than to take from them.

Answer 2

sorry, i can't open the link