About a month ago my in laws bought my 15 year old a 4 wheeler, they did not ask my husband and myself. Their son my first husband passed away in an accident and I have tried to maintain the relationship with his parents for the benifit of my 3 kids. I am now remarried and my father in law from my first marriage does what he wants when it comes to the kids ( like buying the 4 wheeler with out asking my current husband and myself). Today my son called his grandpa with out my knowledge and of course he brought the four wheeler up and was almost at our home before I knew it was coming, he is now out with his friends on it. The last thing that was said to me was that we could make sure it was picked up tonight and was where it would not get wet (by my father in law). We do not have the place to put it as we live in town and both sheds are full. Now my husband is ticked off and is not speaking to me at the moment, so here I am in the middle again, he is refusing to pick the 4 wheeler up cause we did not want him to have it in the first place. I dont want to upset the in laws but I dont think I have been put in a very good position. I feel I should listen to my husband, but I cant seem to get the backbone to stand up to my in laws, and put even more strain on the relationship. Today I also found out when my son turns 16 in a week they are going to sign it over to him and they expect me to put it under our insurance policy. Like most families with 4 teens we are having a hard enough time making ends meet and now this!!! I dont want my son to get a job during the school year as he already struggles in school and needs to focus on his education, so the insurance will fall into our responsiblity. Any advice how to handle this and not hurt any one. I am sure once my hubby calms down he will talk about the situation. But like I said once again I am in the middle. Help?
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