In the life we are finding a perfect person, but is it better learning to see an imperfect person perfectly?

Question

In the life we are finding a perfect person, but is it better learning to see an imperfect person perfectly?

Answer 1

depends on your interpretation of the word perfect

you take the good with the bad and hope there is more good

some people like the bad image and after a while try to change the image

and when they can't it all turns pear shaped

Life is to short . If your not happy move on the hurt soon goes and someone new will make you happy

why keep putting yourself thru the same cycle

Answer 2

I think what you are trying to say is that your should look at the imperfect and accept it for what it is. And yes, I agree.

Answer 3

Not for a perfect one & if you want to be one your ideal should be a perfect one.

Answer 4

Nobody is as perfect  as all of us!I mean nobody is perfect or imperfect!Everybody is perfect at something!

Answer 5

we look for a perfect person, but as it's impossible to find her/him....it's better to see an imperfect person perfectly, this was my answer....that's the power of Love :D

Answer 6

In a poem I am writing about my wife I included these verses:

I sometimes say she is not perfect

But she is the perfect one for me

And as for the many flaws that I have

Well, she simply chooses not to see

Answer 7

Nobody is perfect or imperfect in this world it is only our vision which makes man perfect or imperfect. we must learn to see beauty in ugliness.

Answer 8

I am perfectly impressed, by the perfections portrayed in your portrait of perfection.

Answer 9

Hello,

(ANS) No.1 ALL human beings are imperfect that's just a pure fact of life.

No.2 Some individuals are more wounded or damaged inside than others, some people have a more privileged childhood & family environment in which they grew up and as a result became (become) more successful. And some people grew up without a father or mother or without their biological parents and this affects them for the rest of their lives. We all start from such different starting points & from such different family conditions.

No.3 We are just mirrors for each other, this is especially true of intimate relationships. Real loving relationships include the process of coming to terms with the inner faults & flaws of the other person. We grow through that process over time.

No.4 There is No! such thing as a perfect person they simply DON'T exist. If you insist upon searching for such a perfect person then you will end up being very disappointed and alone in the world.

No.5 imperfection is part of life its just how the world is, the world we live in is far from perfect too.

Ivan.

Answer 10

I don't think we ever do find a perfect person. They don't exist do they!

Answer 11

No one is perfect, even if someone were perfect according to one person, another person would disagree.

It is far better to understand and appreciate a person in all their aspects, I would say that that applies not just to individuals but to all people and places and things. Then, despite the bad things people do, and the indifference of nature, the world, the universe, and everything in it will be shown to be functioning perfectly:)

Answer 12

Everyone is diferent, it should be, the happines is accept at the person with deffects and virtudes =)

Kisses

I love U

Answer 13

Yes I think so - this way lies compassion - and groundedness.

we have to accept how people come or be very disappointed.

I like the quote from Tom Robbins 'Even cowgirls get the blues- - Life is like the art of the jumble sale liking what you get rather than getting what you like

Answer 14

No - it's better to accept that hardly anyone is perfect.  Loving someone in spite of their imperfections is a stronger love than loving them because they are perfect.  If we expect others to love us in spite of our own imperfections, shouldn't we be prepared to do the same for them?