My brother in law is my best friend. Granted, I got to know him through my wife...but there is a friendship there beyond being related. In fact, my wife has said she is jealous of my relationship with him because they don't have that much in common. I see him at church and maybe a couple of Saturdays a month doing whatever stuff the other might need help with.
Well, he is getting married soon. He and his fiance decided to have a very small wedding...only parents and siblings invited...no grandparents or extended family. While I don't agree with this...it isn't my wedding and not my place to say anything. It is what they decided.
My wife has diffent feelings and gets angry every time I mention his name. She was out of town recently and I had dinner with him and his fiance. My wife told me she was angry I did that and I shouldn't do anything with them because of how they are being about the wedding. Over dinner we talked about doing a canoe trip and cookout one Saturday. I briefly mentioned this to my wife and she got even more mad.
I like doing stuff with my brother in law and his fiance. However, making my wife mad isn't fun at all.
Should I stop talking to my brother in law because of what they want to do with their wedding? This would make my wife happy but I don't think it is any of our business what they are doing with it. How can I share my opinion to my wife without sleeping on the couch?
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