In todays world what values would u inculcate in your children and family?

Question

In todays world what values would u inculcate in your children and family?

Answer 1

Having a close family is so important.  Create a relationship with your children so that they know they can come to you for Anything!  Have open communication with them, spend quality time with each of your children.  Also be there for your kids.  And remember, the housework will always be there-spend time with your kids.

Answer 2

This just might be the best question I have ever read.

I try to instill a sense of respect in my children. That means respect for other people, their differences and beliefs, and respect for the world in general. I tell my children not to litter, I talk to them about recycling, and I educate them about animal overpopulation. I tell them there is no difference between people of different colors or nationalities. I explain to them that many people have different religious beliefs, but that doesn't mean they look down on those who don't share their beliefs.

I also try to teach them to be compassionate. We have volunteered at several institutions together. My older son volunteeers at a local hospital, and my younger one will try to volunteer at a basketball camp next year. We will periodically give money to the homeless, or make donations to local shelters.

I try to have them be as globally aware as possible without making them upset or paranoid. For instance, they are very aware that children all over the world are less fortunate than they are. They know many don't have food and water, let alone the new X-Box.

I also teach them manners, which may just be a lost art! My kids hold the doors for people in stores/the mall, whether they are male or female (I have two sons). I've explained to them to call people they don't know "sir" or "Miss or M'am", not just "hey you". They say "excuse me" if they bump into someone.

I've also tried to instill in them a desire for learning. I read to them from an early age, and always spoke of college as an eventuality, not an option. It's "when you go to college" not if. We stress the importance of doing well in school, and making that a priority. I stay in contact with his teachers, and check up on his progress. (I teach at my children's school, so I tend to know what is going on!)

Now, that being said, they are far from perfect. They whine, demand, are unappreciative, and generally can drive me crazy. One is a much better student than the other, and one seems to be more well-adjusted than the other.

BUT-everyone tells me how wonderful they are! So I must be doing something right!