In troble need your help.?

Question

Hi my name is Divyansh i love a girl we have a beautyful love life going for 4years.problem started when she got a job and i m unemployed.suddenly when i called her she says that she does not want to have any kind of relation with me,do not have to talk to me.I m, a regular smoker and occantionally drinker we had many arguments on this but i can not think that she can leave me on this reasons.Now i have a job earnong same as she is a reputation.I want to forget her but i just cant we have planned to marriage and planned almost every thing but now i m feeling very lonely do not know what to do .If u have any practical suggestion please advise.

Thanx and B/rgds

Divyansh

Answer 1

well, maybe she has her own trouble, but it is true that there are still many girls in this world. i can imagine how it feel about the marriage you had plan but u cannot step backword, the world is not going to wait for u, but u got to go with the flow, u can't keep pushing her to get back to you right? maybe u can learn from this experience n in the future u might be success. hope u got the solution soon.

Answer 2

Unfortunately you can't make someone be with you if they don't want to be.  Try contacting her and telling her that you respect her desicion but you would like an explanation as to why she has ended the relationship. Tell her how you feel about this, but do it calmly - if she thinks you are being clingy it will scare her off. When she has given you a reason for ending the relationship, this will give you something to work with if you want her back.  Good Luck!

Answer 3

Hey boy...just grow up....get going...get a job...and you will get many such girls...dont waste time and energy over someone who does not care for you....love is mutual...and so is hatred...just relax and focus on your life and career..