Inaproprate for teen 2 wear fake b***s 2 wedding?

Question

My big sister is getting married in a few weeks and I am in her wedding party. When we went for the final dress fittings, my mom and sister ( and the other bride maids) said I need to wear 'chicken cuttlets' or - "fake b***s" to "fill out the dress and look good in photos." All the girls have really big b***s and they say I will look strange.

I told them Id rather not becasue everyone in the family and friends will know they are fake and I feel wierd wearing them -I think I am too young and maybe it is innaproprate? ( I'm still in high school!) and when my cousin saw me wearing the "falsies" he said I looked like a stripper.

I asked my sister if maybe I could not wear them and my mom yelled at me at the resturant and told me I was being "stupid and selfish" and that "when it is my wedding day I will understand."

Is it innaprorate to wear them? I dont know how to go about this. Maybe I should just wear them? I love my sister and I want her to be happy.

Is this normal to ask the bridemaids to wear them?

Answer 1

wear them or dont go the wedding..

Answer 2

id say wear them, you can always say the corcette made you busty anyways.

Answer 3

What in the world does it matter what your breast size matter?

ALL my bridesmaids except one have D and C cups but that NEVER entered my mind to make her "wear falsies".

Thats ridiculous... I am a bride, and thats not something that would make me say, "When its your wedding day you'll understand."

Your sister is being WAY too caring about how big your breast sise is compare to everyone else...

Stand up for yourself, don't wear those!  If you don't want to wear fake b***s, DONT!

Sit your sister down and tell her again how awkward and uncomfortable you feel... hopefully she'll set aside her selfish care of how your breast look to make her sister feel more comfortable.

Answer 4

It's inappropriate.  You do not need fake b***s, everyone will know they are fake.  Just be yourself.  Stand up to them and say you do not want to have fake b***s.  Period.  You are you.  Any dress you are in will still look nice.  How would the others feel if you ask them to get breast reductions?  They are being very rude.  No, it's not normal to ask anyone to wear fake b***s.  I know it's your sister's wedding day, but she stepped out of line by asking you to get fake b***s.  The focus will be on your sister anyway.  And the pictures will show the real you, and everyone else will know it's the real you.  You don't want fake b***s.  That's so rude to have asked you that!  Ask her if one of her bridesmaids had a double mastectomy, would she insist she wore fake b***s?  She needs to grow up and learn to let people just be themselves.  Why in the world would she want a fake wedding?  That's what it will end up to be, because everyone will be looking at your fake b***s.  Tell your sister that one.  

Answer 5

I find be so insulted if someone told me to wear fake b***s. That is very rude. I'd be especially insulted if my mother was telling me to wear them too. It's not inappropriate to wear them, but I think it was inappropriate of them to have asked you to wear them, and not only that - but to have pretty much forced you to. I would definitely keep up the protest. Tell them you're uncomfortable with it and that you will not do it- but also tell them you understand you want the wedding day to be perfect, but you also think the fake b***s thing is unnecessary. It isnt selfish at all.

Answer 6

Woww,

I would tell your mom that shes selfish too, a mother asking a daughter to wear a fake breast, so rudeee.

Answer 7

if  the fake b***s are gonna be visible then forget about but if ur dress covers it then that's fine usually ppl do that to make the dress looks good , and it is just one night and u should look good in ur sisters wedding party..it is not about the b***s it is about the dress...

Answer 8

I don't think so,

I mean it's only for the dress right?

No other reason, and you're mom

saying that you were being selfish and stupid

that's just WRONG. She was probably nervous about

the wedding and such so don't feel bad about that.

Answer 9

I have to agree with you. As an adult with a small chest, I would be mortified to wear false b***s that obviously arent mine. People would know straight away they arent real! That would be so embarrassing.

I think both your mother and sister are out of line for making you be something you are not. The dress should be altered to fit your body.

Suggest to your mother that she get a face lift for the wedding day. I say, give her a taste of her own medicine! Sheesh.

Answer 10

one word:male enhancement:)

Answer 11

thats stupid to have to wear them wtf is wrong with your mom? LOL I dont think you should have to wear them just because their chest is bigger then yours!

Answer 12

i never really heard of wearing fake b***s for a wedding, but hey.

if it makes your sister happy, why not (: it's just for one day, anyway.

Answer 13

When i was a bridesmaid, i decided not to wear one because i just felt uncomfortable. I was scared that they would fall out while i was dancing, and i didnt want to do what my cousin was all night, putting her hand down her top to adjust them because they kept moving and the plastic was sweating her. It doesnt matter about what ayone wants you to do, its all up to you. If you want them, get them, but its not essential. i would rather remember a nice day, and not be consious of my chest all night, because we are all made beautifully anyway.  

Answer 14

Poor you!

You are the sanest one in your family.

Please do what you will least regret - even if you think you'll get yelled at.  

Weddings make people insaely fixated on the most inane details - you will look like you in the pictures - and what is wrong with that?

Tell your mother/sister they are Bridezilla's and they can fix whatever they want via Photoshop later versus you walking around all day hearing comment after comment about looking like a stripper.

Answer 15

Just wear them for the pics and ceremony and take them out after for the reception. Let them have their way and one day when you get married and ask for something outrageous you can remind your mom and sister of how they made you wear fakies.  

Answer 16

Forget the Falsies. You are who you are.

Do they want to take Wedding Photos or something that might show up in Playboy?

Stick to your principles, young lady. You have a lot more class than your Mom or your Sister.

They should be ashamed to ask you to do such a thing.

Kudos to you for standing your ground!

I'm glad there are some young ladies who will stick to theirs beliefs.

Don't give an inch!

Answer 17

dont worry, itll look good!

and its true. its youre sisters day, everyone will be looking at the bride.. not youre b***s..

its not innapropriate, im 13 and i own a pairr.

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Answer 18

My condolences on being raised by morons.   My advice to you is to move out as soon as you are able to support yourself and hopefully undo the damage that has been done by your so-called role models.

Answer 19

Your Mom shouldn't have yelled...especially in public...she needs to apologize to you....

but yes..it's Ok to wear the chicken cutlets to make a dress fit better...they won't show and since you've already told everyone you're going to be wearing them, then why not ??? if you'd kept your mouth shut about it, no one else would have known or thought anything about it..

It's not about making your sister happy. It's about looking good in the wedding party....everything about weddings is fake...so whats the problem ??? ( it's a party to make sure everyone knows you can spend money to see two people tell everyone they're 'in love'...)

Answer 20

Lmaoo funny you should say that... my brother got married a llittle whileago and I'm still in high school and i wore chicken fillets even though my mother repeatedly told me NOT to...

no ones gonna notice. It will look fine and unless you tell people you're wearing them...they will go unnoticed.

trust me x just enjoy ur sisters wedding!

Answer 21

If it's for one day it's not inappropriate.  But, your sister and mom should not force you to if you don't want to.