Incestuousness...Please help!

Question

A few months ago, i had an incestuous dream about my brother. It was really horrible, and for weeks afterwards i couldn't stop thinking about it, and i started to believe that i fancied him or something?! Like, i forced myself into thinking this. The more i thought of sick stuff, the lest disgusted i became, and that therefore freaked me out more.

Anyway, after a while i forgot all about it, and things went back to normal which was great. However, yesterday he left to go to Thailand/Australia for 3 weeks,and suddenly i really miss him, and the horrible thoughts came back again. But this time they were combined with guilt: I don't think i've treated my brother very nicely over the years, while he's always been so kind and loving to me as a sibling. It scares me because when he was away at university for 3 years i never thought about him once.

Please help me, what's going on? Why am i not repelled by these thoughts? Obviously i would never ACT on them! Perhaps i just need a boyfriend...

Thanks for listening to my shite.

Answer 1

Well.... talk to him! Go out to lunch one day and just chat and reminisce about topics. Try to forget about the other thoughts. And when they come up, think of something else because you seem to know it was only a dream. I know you are a smart person and will make all of the right decisions. Good Luck

Answer 2

just go visit him and act out on it.

incest is hot as h**l.

   ;o)

Answer 3

You are normal!!!! Please know this. The feelings you are feeling are those of a normal healthy woman.. men have them too! It may be a dream that has nothing to do with s*x, but everything your guilt of not treating him very well for the last few years. This might be a way for your brain to say.. PAY ATTENTION. Talk to him.. form a relationship with him.. get to know him.. be the best sister you can be to him. See if that doesn't put those other thoughts to rest!

Answer 4

Perhaps you should try speaking to a professional about these thougths.  A professional would be able to help you get the root of the problem and get it fixed better than someone on the internet could.  But I also agree you shouldn't talk to your brother about it.  It might weird him out.

Answer 5

whatever you do dont talk to him about it. that will not help matters at all. would you want him to tell you if he had this going on in his head?