Increasing my boyfriends libido, or s*x drive?

Question

i am 22 and my boyfriend is 28. i am the type of girl where i want s*x every day or every other day. but he only wants it once a week. even if i do things to set the mood. if it has happend within a week ago i will probally get shot down. its almost embarrasing suggesting or hinting anymore. because i am worryed it wont work. but if i dont then i may not get it in a week at all. i want his libido to be boosted a little, but he is very defensive about it. he gets embarrased and angry if i say anything. hes worried that since i am sexually frustrated i will cheat. i wont but i still want it more often from him without upsetting him....what can i do?

Answer 1

Have him get checked out by a doctor. Many conditions can kill libido, high blood pressure, diabetes, high cholesterol, and hormonal imbalance to name a few. Some of these are dangerous, all can be easily treated.

Answer 2

Sounds like as far as s*x goes, you both have problems, if s*x is really important to you, then maybe you ought to consider moving on until you find a sexual partner who's as active as you are, other wise your going to have to sit him down and tell him what you expect sexually from him, if he was like that before you two got together then doubt your going to change him, regardless you need to talk to him about it, if he don't help you out that way, then your going to have to think about either changing your drive or trying to get him to change his, if that don't work, then it's time to move on, age has no real affect on s*x drives. I'm 55 and I'd love to have a gal like you around me since my drive is still as strong as it was when I was that age.

Answer 3

Go to askmen.com! Right now there is an article on foods to enhance the libido.

Answer 4

Make a move on him, grab his pants and tear them off him, then squeeze his c**k.

Answer 5

Just grab his junk and get started. Take control. What kind of man doesn't want s*x with his girlfriend who says its ok. Tell him you want him and only him but once a week isn't going to cut it. Every other night. You didn't ask for suggestions really but heres one. If he doesn't want to have s*x with you, ask him to watch you m********e. That's always good. Pleasing yourself and people watching is a turn on!!  

Answer 6

i have the same problem. i'm 22 and he's 28 too so if you get a good answer let me know. sorry.

Answer 7

do it when he's asleep

Answer 8

I'd try to work it out with him.  For example... maybe he doesn't want to have intercourse, or even give oral s*x, as often as you want it.  But what about closeness?  Sensual massage?  I mean, it's not like your sexuality turns him off, is it?  Or is it?  Because if that's the case, then maybe the problem is bigger than you'd like it to be.  But I would just say that you want to have closeness and physical touching, and maybe m********e.  If he doesn't even think he could be part of that then it sounds like maybe intimacy issues as well as s*x drive issues, or differing views about the okayness of sexual expression.

Answer 9

I have read and also experienced , If you have s*x often  you continue to want it often, however the opposite is true.  I suggest you  and him discuss  and make a plan of having s*x more often and seeing if it helps.  All I have to do is get close to my husband and touch  him and he  will do anything.  I not saying each time has to be all drawn out. some time  is is love making and other times it is a quickie what ever works. Good Luck.

Answer 10

here are some ideas  -

maybe you can dress s**y and catch him as he comes home from work. unless he has a physical labor job. Then he might be tired.



if he does most of the work in bed that can be boring and unsatisfying to him.

wake him up in the middle of the night with some oral pleasure.

watch some adult films together.

MAYBE he's g*y or you might have to get a lil kinkier