Increasing number of divorce everyday... What’s the reason... where is our society heading...?

Question

Increasing number of divorce everyday... What’s the reason... where is our society heading...?

Is it the women education which is spoiling their brain...?

OR is it the new generation men who are still not able to accept this sense of equality...?

All points of view are invited... Please quote opinions and personal experiences to support your statements...

BUT please keep the discussion healthy... hope you all understand this is a sensitive topic... we are talking to find and understand unobserved facts and not to bring upon a fight between men and women... thanks...

Answer 1

Hm.. well, I can't say from experience because I'm not married. (Only 16) But from what I see everyday point out blank everyone is selfish. We only care about ourselves. Men and women cheat on their spouses so the relationships never stay in tact. Why do they cheat? Because it's fun! It's pleasurable for them! Who cares about they spouse, right? That's what it seems like!

Selfishness! They are selfish and don't care how it could hurt their spouse as long as they're having fun and feeling pleasure. A lot of divorces are from cheating.. the human race has become selfish.. Money has to do with another thing. Humans love money.. humans NEED money in order to survive! Maybe husband's paycheck would be nice to steal to go spend on somethings that they would love. or maybe the husband wants to keep his money and guy out drinking or clubbing to pick up some nice girls. Why? Because it's FUN.. because it's ENJOYABLE. They don't care about how it hurts another person! It is very very sad! But everyone is selfish and just don't care about anyone anymore. I think this is why people divorce. I think it is both men and women who do things that only cares for themselves. Not everyone is like that but it's really hard nowadays to find someone who is selfless. At school I see boys talking about girls and how hawt they are and totally wanting to be in her pants.. not even considering the girl's feeling whatsoever! It's fun! It's pelasurable! They don't care.



Sometimes equality have taken play. Guys would sometime say that girls should be at home and cook and give s*x while the guys work.. girls should have s*x, blow jobs, etc! It is very disgusting! But true. No one cares for each other hence why divorcing is increasing.

Answer 2

Honestly, I think the reason why we have so many divorces is because people just give up and don't even fight for thier relationship. They go in thinking it's going to be easy, and it's not. So they just run away when it gets tough and reality sets in.

Marriage is not just the wedding. It's compromise, it's hard work. But anything worth having isn't easy.  

Answer 3

Not sure it has to do with women having equal rights. Any time you oppress a group they are always bound to break free. That is rubbish.

I think divorce is increasing because people are into fairy tales. Values are not around as they used to be and parents are letting computers, video games and tvs babysit their children. People see reality tv and think I want that fair tale. I want the meet my price charming and live happily ever after. They work so hard to plan the wedding that they ignore red flags telling them that they are making a mistake.

Marriage is a lifetime committment. Not just one day. If you don't feel good about staying with the other person forever then don't lie and say you are. Don't get married just because someone is pregnant. That usually ends in disaster sooner rather than later. If you weren't married before you had the mistake then you don't all of a sudden fall in love just because you are pregnant. This is not the movies. It is real life.  

Answer 4

I put it on the i want it now society. We go after instant gratification, and don't really want to work on anything that is too hard. If it doesn't make us happy now, it's not worth it.  

Answer 5

1)  because we actually believe in love at first sight, which is ridiculous

2(  because we're a lot more selfish as a people than we were 50 years ago

3) since many 20 -50 year olds have beenthrough the divorce of our parents, we don't believe in happily ever after and almost expect it not to work out.

Answer 6

Because it's easier to get a divorce instead of working hard on your marriage.

Answer 7

i believe divorce is caused by unmet expectations, immaturity, lack of character, too lazy to work on problems, not having any problem solving skills,and the fact that there are too many people out there willing to step in to another's shoes when problems occur. there isn't any punishment for adultery, or hurting others, divorce is so easy to get out of and people today don't have the morals they use to have in previous generations, and the lack of belief in god.also drug usage causes many divorces.

Answer 8

Good Topic...

The institution of marriage is extremely fragile. No matter how strong the couple work on building it and sustaining it, a situation can come a long and destroy it. People come to marriage with broken spirits and neglected childhoods mixed with unrealistic expectations. And our society doesn't support the institution of marriage...Being married today, a person needs to acquire a set of skills that constantly needs to be upgraded! Marriage takes a whole lot of communication, respect, honesty, and compromise. I know I didn't mention love. Love is important. However, love is the catalyst that should propel these skills.