Infidelity...to stay or not to stay?

Question

Boyfriend cheated on me, wants to do anything (counseling, talking) to be friends so he can show me he truly wants to be with me and treat me well (I broke it off after I found out).

Last two weeks have been great, he has shown many things I had asked of him before, but I have an uneasy feeling when we're apart sometimes.

Should I continue with the one that really makes me happy the vast majority of the time or move on?

Answer 1

leave now before you hurt yourself deeper.  when you lay in bed with him and get super close there will be an instant (if it has not happened yet?) where in the middle of a great moment that insecurity will poke at youreminding you that he has laid or shared something with someone else. Its hard to forget . The longer you stay the longer it willl take you to trust the next person in your life.

Answer 2

sometimes guys cheat, then they say they wont do it again.  my friends boyfriend cheated on her 6 times. every timer she went back to him, she got hurt. i think you should rethink going back to him. but you know him better then i do sometimes they do change.

Answer 3

If you are in doubt whenever you are not together, that only means you don't trust him anymore. Girl you will be miserable if your in a relationship that has no trust because love will come crashing down on both of you one day.

Now if you can forget what he did and still love and trust him go on.

Answer 4

that's a tough one, as always. it depends on if you think you could still love him. if youhtink things are always gonna be different/awkward, then don't continue the relationship. but its possible he just messed up, and realizes how much he loves you, and regrets it so much and feels really bad.