Initial indicators of a soul mate encounter?

Question

Of course there needs to be a deep, intuitive feeling, but what are some initial signs of a romantic soul mate encounter? (even if there is little verbal communication).

What if you have an indescribable gut feeling about them, but you have only spoken a few times. The first time I spoke to him, I felt good but the spark didn't quite catch. The second time I ran into him(outside of school), it hit me like a brick, aka love at first sight, literally. We have spoken only a few times because of nerves, but there is this indescribable current, or connection between us when we have spoken. It is almost like electricity! I have seen him/run into him a total of 8 times outside of school. Looking into his eyes is like an information overload- I feel like I know everything about him, even though we have only talked a few times.

My gut feeling told me from the beginning the attraction is mutual.

Answer 1

That's so beautiful and deep... Cherish it.

I hope he does feel very similarly.

Wish you all the best!! That indeed is beautiful :-). U r very lucky.

All the best.....and hope this continues and deepens.

Something that came to my mind: go slow and steady and don't rush it. Keep ur expectations minimal and just enjoy his company and presence. Get to know him slowly. This is so beautiful..I wouldn't want anything to ruin it.

Answer 2

Ask the question:  If you have a son in the future, what would be his name?  If your answers are the same, you know it is meant to be.

Regards

Answer 3

Wow. That kind of connection is what everyone in the world is searching for.

Don't let him pass you by. Start talking with him regularly ASAP.

Answer 4

Alot of people 'make' a soul mate connection rather than have one. That is because the initial attraction to someone can mimic the intensity of a soul-mate connection, especially since it is one that can/should come along only once in your lifetime.

And actually, the signs are different for every person. Some people feel an intense dislike the first time they meet, others are indifferent, and others fall under the classic 'love at first sight'.

You should ask yourself how many other times you've felt this. If you've been looking for a soul mate, oftentimes the person's loneliness can make them choose people simply because they want to find the person, rather than letting the person and the experience find them. Think of girls who want to be princesses just to get the handsome prince, without ever fully understanding that whole frog/beast/pumpkin aspect, which is just as integral to the experience as the happy ending.

A soul mate simply isn't electricity and bashful glances. It is sitting at opposite ends of the restaurant and ordering the same topping on their slice of pizza without ever looking at the other. It is loving ballet more than anything in the world, and for your first date, they take you to see a performance of the Nutcracker because they won tickets and immediately thought of you, without knowing anything about what you love. It is thinking big slobbery dogs are adorable, and having them invite you over so you can see the 3 big slobbery dogs they've had as pets for as long as they can remember.

It is, in otherwords, a validation and reaffirmation of your beliefs, which are their beliefs, which make you wonder whose beliefs are whose. Bashful glances and butteflies can happen with alot of people; drinking the same brand of water for the same reason, and sharing that information with someone you barely know, can only happen with a few.