I'm 32 have been dating a 33 yr man for about a yr. Early in our relationship I grew a leary feeling regarding his kids. For instance when we would be talking on the phone his daughter would constantly cry. due to her blocks fell, the brother teasing, she wanted pudding I mean a crying whining (annoying even if she is 3). So I mentioned she needs your attention, both of his kids do. (His break up was about 3 months earlier to our talking/dating.) I have had this talk with him several times casually mentioning that he cannot be in a full time relationship because his kids require so much of his time which leaves me feeling left out. I have tried to do dinner dates with him and THE KIDS. go to the park WITH THE KIDS. and I feel horrible that I feel I cannot stand them. I have a 16yr and a 12 yr so vast age difference. Mind you also I forgot to mention that the mother/his ex is not so stable. If she calls he jumps..for the kids right.. My rant how can I overcome this jealousy-insecurities ? On his days off tues.,fri.,sat. are with his kids so I get to see him after work.(for like 3 hrs.. ugh I don't like to complain but can someone breathe some air into this and tell me I need to move on or how this can be fixed? Our love life is great, we have great chemistry but when he has his kids I feel neglected and I feel horrible feeling this way. He is procrastinator so any changes "he says he will do" don't happen. not good. Any advice after my novel of complaints. Any would help me, positive or negative....
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