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Question

I came out of a horriable relationship. I meet a new guy, hes fantastic. He says he loves me. Its his first time saying that to anyone. I may love him, but i am afriad to say it. B'cus now the definition of love to me is complications( and the reason 4 that is my last relationship) I really like this guy a lot, and want to be with him always. Do you think i have a problem ? whats your opinion?

Answer 1

just ease in to it.. maybe in time you'll learn to trust and see how sincere he really is.. but maybe let him know you're cautious because of the last guy and tell hm to be patient b/c you really dont' wanan lose him...

Answer 2

You do not have a problem.  Experience has taught you to be cautious, and you are wise to tread slowly following a bad relationship.  It shows that you learned something.  Be honest that you are guarded because of what you've been through--that way he doesn't think it has anything to do with him.