Internal Pain Whilst Ontop?

Question

I am relatively inexperienced, I was a virgin a few months ago and my boyfriend and I have only done it about 13 times since. The first few times were very painful, that seemed normal and went away after a while, I now absolutely love s*x and it causes me no pain when he's ontop (missionary position), however, as I am slowly becoming more ready to experiment, I have twice attempted to go ontop and I cannot explain to you how painful it is. It's not a pain on the outside, it's internal, very much inside of me, it's bearable when he doesn't go too deep, but when he does, it hurts so much, it's as if his p***s is nudging something, i've tried moving around but it still hurts so much, it's not a pain around my vaginal area, it's INSIDE, it's sort of like a dull ache. What is this? And sorry to be so graphic.

Answer 1

I'm not trying to scare you or anything, but the pain sounds like pelvic inflammatory disease. It probably is'nt, but because you're sexually active now and seeing as you love s*x, maybe its something to be aware of, as well as knowing about STI/STD's. On the other hand, its might just be because you've just started having s*x. If the pain is that bad or gets worse, then definitely get it checked out!

Answer 2

Since you are new to s*x, then you might want to try lubricant because you might be drying out while you are on top which is causing so much pain. When you are on top instead of facing him, get on him with your back facing him. That way he will be able hit your g-spot more often than when you are facing him, and you will find that dull ache will fade away.