Internal exam help??

Question

im 17 and i may have to get a vaginal internal exam thing my questions are how bad does it hurt? what are the doctors looking for? would they be able to tell if i have already had s*x? if they can see i have had s*x will they tell my parents? thankyou so so much!

Answer 1

First of all it does not hurt, it's just uncomfortable. When you go tell your mom that you do not want her to go in because that will make you more uncomfortable. No they will not tell your mom that you have had s*x that id your right. They are usually checking for cancer of the uterus, or cervix's. Don't be scared and go. Also if you are sexually active it would be a good time to think about birth control. No your mom does not have to know that either. But remember no s*x is the safest s*x and no matter what always use a condom.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

When you have a pelvic exam, it should not hurt.  It might be uncomfortable, but you should have no pain.  The position you're in (on your back with your legs up and flexed) is uncomfortable, especially psychologically.  Don't worry too much about it though... it's over in 5 minutes or so.

The doctor will be checking your s*x organs to make sure all is well.  He or she will feel your uterus and fallopian tubes.  Also, you'll have a pap smear, where they'll scrape some cells off of your cervix to send into a lab.  That will check for abnormal cells that can lead to cancer.  If you are sexually active (and yes, they will ask, so just be honest... they won't tell your parents.  They can't, by law.), then they might also do smears to check for STDs.

You'll be okay!  It will be over with quickly and then you won't have to go for another whole year.  Just try to relax and stay calm.

Answer 3

look if you dont want them looking at your v****a them tell them that you are on your period then they wont look but that will ask if you are sexually active and all that junk lol....