Interperetation of a dream.?

Question

Hello all,

I usually do not have trouble with this but I had an interesting dream about a friend of mine. I suppose that I should first tell you that she is rather evasive and private, I am certain that this characteristic plays a role in my dream. Anyway, this is what happened: I am walking up the steps of her (for some reason) huge, run down, behemoth of a house. (In reality her house is really about average size.) Then she comes to the door in this relatively tight shirt and very snug panties. (She NEVER shows skin.) This is where it gets weird, she comes to the door (she is barefoot, I believe this is significant because she NEVER wears any revealing shoes so images of her feet were prominent. I do not have a foot fetish, it was my curiosity that caused this.) invites me in and when she turns around, I notice that her *** cheeks are floppy, and pancake-like (This is frightening to me, and just for the record, I do not make it a point to look at her *** but something like that would have stuck out to anybody.) From there, we walk through her house, which is trashed and quite foul in every way. (Her house is the exact reciprocal of this in reality.) Her family is ridiculous in number, too many siblings to count and they were all just hideous, and rambunctious as well. So as we go up the stairs we go to her room and she puts these nice clothes on (A nice skirt and a revealing shirt, not S****y but more skin than she ever shows, and sandals... again with the feet, I know.) And after this, we somehow traverse space and time (I say that because there was no activity in between the two events.) and we are walking in the parking lot of what I believe is a movie theater, just talking then she said "I wish we could..." and that is when I woke up. This is weird, I love this person and I hope this is not something that suggests otherwise. Could this dream be a surreal display of my inner most desires? I hope not, because although I think she is one of the most gorgeous girl ever to grace the earth, I am happy enough just calling her a friend. Any help would be great. I apologize for the longevity of this question.

Answer 1

Most dreams are usually a veiled disguise of what it is you are truly wishing or maybe worried about.  Try to find out what it is that you may be hiding or desiring that is being displayed in your dream, and there you will have your answer.

Answer 2

hi

a mate of mine studied phycology and said some guy (sorry cant remember his name; freud or sumthing like that) has said that if a dream involves going upstairs with someone it means you would basically like to have s*x with the person you are with...

it seems to me you have a crush on this person but you arent quite ready 2 admit it and therfore its playin on ur mind causing u 2 dream about it... really think about it? are u sure u just wanna b frends wit her or are you afraid to go further...

Answer 3

it is very natural to have dream about your female friends. It happens to me all the time (they get pretty rated R). I can't really interpret this but unless you are denying the fact that you really like her than I wouldn't worry too much about it. It's just a dream..it happens

Answer 4

It's your computer calling... You need to reinstall Windows.

Answer 5

I think you are attracted to her and scared of the attraction because it could come with baggage (the family, the dirty house). it's ok to be attracted to a friend but are you sure you can just stay friends when you have dreams like this about her?

Answer 6

I really have no idea?!! Maybe you think she is possibly hiding something from you. Being that she is always covered and her feet lol you maybe think she has a wild side but is too scared to show it to people and hope she would?! I don't know thats my thought. I wouldn't know what else to think because I don't know what kind of friendship you guys have =)

Answer 7

Okay, I may be incorrect with some of this, but I shall try my hardest to get a good explanation out to you.

You say in the beginning of her dream that her house is run-down, crowded, and she is actting completely different as far as showing skin and such.  

A run-down building or lifestyle can represent that you have some sort of fear for her well-being.  And judging by your final comments, I can only assume that this is a true statement.  

Her bizarre attire may represent a hidden desire of your own.  Although she may be modest, perhaps you'd like her to be a bit more open with herself- reveal herself more to you.  Not necessarily in matters of the flesh, but with her personality and expressions as well.

The end of the dream, the whole movie scene, probably means- simply put- that you enjoy being with this person.  It represents a passion, roleplayed through an enjoyable pass-time such as going to see a movie, for this person.

I hope that helps some!

Answer 8

and you expect us to read all of that

Answer 9

It's hard to say.  Most dreams we have are about ourselves; but not always.  Our spirit is more perceptive than the rest of us.

first clue; big run-down house; a house can represent a person.

It looks like you're being given clues to something that isn't quite what

it seems. Not sure if it's your friend or not.  That''s for you to discern.

Could be something about yourself, but there's something that isn't what it seems to be.