Interracial Dating Help Please?

Question

I've noticed two years ago that i seem to be interested in other races such as white and chinese, but when i see a really cute boy, they just seem to look but they don't approach me and i don't know if it okay to approach them and how to talk to them? oh yes i am a black girl by the way. I hope i haven't offended anyone with this question ( i just need an advice)

Answer 1

I'm actually seeing this white guy (half italian and half jordanian) we get alot of stares but he used to grow up in a rough black neighborhood so therefore he had black friends and he dated black females before. in your case, maybe they don't know how to approach a black girl. trust me, there are other races out there that will date black girls, they probably don't know how. just continue to be yourself and continue to be friendly, you'll attract someone.

Answer 2

nothing offensive about that...wish i can help but i dont really know these kind of stuff.

Answer 3

Approach him I need a legion of Mixed rrace babies to celebarte and show Unity across the world and the celbration of culture yea.

LOL Kidding, Kidding, I am not harvesting any babies for any cause even to cellebrate ultrure, hey, hey don't even think about it.

Ok, if you've never approached a guy before even if he was black, white or chinese or another race, it will be odd for you. But Give it a go, if he says no well, eish sorry because that will hurt but at the end of the day, it is his loss.  

Answer 4

I think it's fine to approach guys of other races.  Don't be too forward or aggressive.  Just approach them as a new friend and pretend that you're introducing yourself to another female.  Let the flirting begin after you've talked a while or more than once.

Answer 5

I wish I could say that in 2008 color doesn't matter.  However it does matter to people still.  The advice that I give is this:  Know yourself, know what you want in a relationship, cause all relationships are hard but interracial may be harder, it may not. Know what you want out of life and go get it.  If you are interested in someone go for it.  Whats the worse that can happen....they say no.  

Answer 6

Just approach them like you would anyone - believe me having someone flirt with you is nice no matter what their race - and especially when it's a girl hitting on a guy.  I understand how talking to people of other races can be intimidating because you don't know how they see you and to be honest I know many people who have never considered dating outside of their race - they probably would not be opposed to if they actually thought about it, but it is one of those things that people just don't think of.   The bottom line is if you don't try, then you'll never know so start with a hello and a smile.

Answer 7

Fortunately, most young people these days don't give a flip about race and racial differences. If you are interested in a guy, just smile, look him in the eye, and say "hi". Then as chance allows, get closer to him and talk to him. If the opportunity ever presents, touch him on the hand, arm, shoulder. Always look him in the eye. Sooner or later, he'll get the message. Then you can go from there.

Answer 8

just approach them....I am a white guy and find black women so so s**y.  I dated one prior until she relocated to Europe for work =(.   Oh ya she was a much better kisser then any white gal I kissed  

Answer 9

No offence taken.

There would be nothing wrong or inappropriate for you to approach them.

Think of a (spontaneous) question and just ask him.

Black, white, yellow or brown, if they are interested, they'll respond.

Just be nicely confident in your approach.

Answer 10

My dear, true love is a beautiful thing and hard to find, so if you think you may have found it, never let the colour of someone's skin, or the reaction you may get from anybody else, be a reason not to hold on to it. ( Boys like it when you approach them.)  Just be yourself. No worries, Jen

Answer 11

i'd approach you if you were cute, but girls who aren't interested act like i'm a psycho, it's hard to know

Answer 12

Its a great question girl and you know, just because your black doesnt mean you can't like guys of other races, in fact you should be obliged to, break from the crowd and do something daring. And if they're not noticing because they are stuck in their social habits of themselves and society nowadays. You need to make them see that you want them, and when they do they will get interested because your a different race. Have fun