I think I know the answer to this, but I wanted to ask for feedback:
My spouse, James, works with a woman I'll call "Vickie." She invited everybody at their workplace (about 12 people) to a 4th of July bbq at her house, to meet her husband and daughter.
Spouses of employees were also invited. Vickie handed James the invitation and told him "Hope to see you and Jon there."
We RSVP'd, then on 7/3 Vickie called James aside & said that surely he must know that he couldn't bring his male spouse to her family gathering.
She said she invited us to be polite, but she assumed that James and I "surely knew" that I, as the g*y spouse, was not "really" invited.
She seemed to think there was nothing wrong with this. When James's other coworkers found out, they all but 3 boycotted Vickie's party and now Vickie is mad at JAMES because "he" ruined her festivities.
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