Is 14 too young to be in love?

Question

I'm 14 years old, and in complete love. I know that sounds stupid, but it isn't puppy love. Me and my boyfriend completely respect each other. He isn't pressuring me to do stuff, and we are completely comfortable with each other. My parents like him, and we get along great. It actually hurts, physically hurts when we are away from each other for too long a time. Some people have noticed how close we are and say that I'm too young to have a soulmate. Is fourteen to young to know that you've found the one you want to marry?

Answer 1

What i advise you is that you should give each other time.Some more years and if you think you still have that sort of feelings for each other than you can take it to the next stage.Too early to decide about love.

Answer 2

Wow. what you're describing i'm feeling and im 19 yrs old. My bf and I are completely in love with each other and hate being apart. I know what you're feeling. To be honest being 14 and feeling that is odd but definitely not impossible. I would just say be careful not to get heartbroken because you are so young and still growing but you never know what the future holds.

Good Luck and be Strong.

Answer 3

Yes, it is too early. At this stage of life you should better concentrate on other activities.

Answer 4

too young to be in love, no, too young to know hes the one you wanna mary, yes

Answer 5

theres no age limit on love hun!

it just happens.

if you feel its TRUE, then it is.

:)

Answer 6

This is first love.  It's is lovely and very intense.

It's not so much you being to young to have a soul mate, but you and your boyfriend will go through so many changes over the next 5 to 10 years - physically, mentally, emotionally and environmentally (studying and jobs).  

A lot of people drift apart between 20 and 25 if they've been together from the same age as you.  Not always of course but a lot do because they end up going off in different directions.

Just take it how it comes....  

Answer 7

no its not too young but to marry? maybe when ur 18+. im 15 and would like to marry at 19, and has a job and everything. dont go overboard. i think u both would make a great couple though ^^

Answer 8

I really dislike the people who say 14, 15 and 16 year olds are too young to know what love is and then discourage them because they honestly don't know everyone's specific situation and are, therefore, generalizing. It's like they think less of teens because of age which is wrong.

I think you can love a person any time, at any age because love means different things to everybody.

However, i don't think, at 14, you can know that you've found the one you want to marry. You have so much life ahead of you and you've barely started experiencing real life...love, loss, hurt, good times, terrible times, great guys, bad guys...it's all there. I think you need to do a lot more living to be able to know if you've found the one you want to marry.