Is 23 years to big of an age gap?

Question

ok, first off this is long and we are both lez if people start wondering, lol.

If 2 people love each other, should a 23 year age gap be a big deal? (Granted that both of them are above 18 ) I'm just curious, I have the biggest crush on someone who is 23 years older than me. I know at 14, it's probably just puppy love but we have almost everything in common, we think the same, have the same goals, same interest, and i don't know if people pay attention to astrology anymore but we have PERFECT compatibility to one another, acording to all the planet signs, not just the sun signs, it says that we are an excellent match, and that's usually pretty rare. Once I am over 18, should the age be a big deal if we love each other? (f.y.i. nothings going on now so don't freak out, lol) They know nothing about me even being curious about this question.

And, what is the biggest age gap you have ever had in a relationship?

Answer 1

That is a difficult one.  My crush is 37 and I am 23, people think that is too much of a differnce and its "only" 14 years.  All I can say is (when you are over 18) do what makes you happy.

Answer 2

shez 22 n i m 35, already 13yrs age gap.. she knew i am fond of her but after much thoughts, i am giving her up not that i dont love her anymore ( i do still love her very deeply ), BUT the prob with me right now is, i find that its just not right n unfair to her bc shez still so young n many future ahead of her, LOVE to me doesnt have to be a part of her.. i still do care very much for her.  well, this is just my opinion.. good luck to you.

Answer 3

I strongly advise you against continuing this relationship.  The 23 year difference in age is not the issue.  What is the issue is that you are only 14 years old.  She is taking advantage of you, even if you don't see it.  My advice to you is to terminate the relationship ASAP.

Answer 4

Girl, SO many things are going to change before you turn 18! You are going to meet a million people and have a ton of crushes before then... Don't even try to figure out what is going to happen in 4 years. It's a waste of time!!!

Oh and in general, age is just a number. I've date people up to 18 years older than me, so that's pretty close. But again... don't worry about it yet. Things will happen as they are supposed to; don't waste your time thinking about it now.

Answer 5

much too big