Is 5 months too early for a promise ring?

Question

i love him and i know he loves me but my family does not like him and hes turning 19 soon and i just turned 15 and we've already talked about moving away together and stuff but i'm not even his girlfriend because my parents wouldn't be too happy about that and we've only known each other for 5 months. It seems kind of soon doesn't it?

Answer 1

hun, ur only 15.. its too soon to choose the right guy plus hes only 19.  I mean im 25 i dont even want to settle yet..!! you still have a lot more to see for this planet... being honest..a guy who is 19 he dont even know what he wants yet.. at least my bf is like that and hes 26 i mean if u guys move out first like u say ur parents would not be happy and they would also be worried.. second you guys have to worry about rent, food, money etc.. you need to really think about urself and your family and ur future life first.. decide what u doing to do later on ur life..then you can answer urself is it too soon.. i mean everyone changes time to time..especially when a couple lives together.. its hard for both parties.. cause then theres augment.. fight.. heart breaking news... etc..

Answer 2

Waaay too young.  And when you do get much older, get engaged outright.  He needs to save up three months salary and buy you a proper ring.  Not some pebble/promise ring.  It's a cute sentiment, though. But when I was that age much preferred the real thing.  Now I have an amazing husband and a nice ring.  Don't settle for less.  And he shouldn't want to give you anything  less.  

You don't need to be running away with this guy.  You're family and schooling are important aswell, as well.  Be young and enjoy it.  There will be plenty of time for marriage.

Answer 3

I think it is a little soon..

especially for your age.

in the long rong, it would be much better if your parents and him got along.  especially if you're planning on having a future together.  If your parents and him don't get along it could create even more confusion down the road.  

Is there something he can do so your parents might accept him more? is it his manners? is it that he just ignores your parents or is rude? or is it something more than that?

I would suggest still going to school and staying with him as well.. but if you're trying to hard to make it work... you really don't deserve to be with him the rest of your life.  because if it's hard now.. it'll only get harder down the road.  

Answer 4

i f you really love this guy n you no in your heart he loves you its a good time for the promice ring,,u have your life mom n dad cant tell u what to do for ever,,peace

Answer 5

are you looking for a father figure, b/c you are looking in the wrong places, you need to focus on geing a child right now, if he loves you like he says he does, he will wait 3 more yrs, when you are alittle nmore mature, and by then you'll have a changed mind.

Answer 6

i know what don't wanna hear right now is that ur too young. But I will say that at ur age love is the ulimate goal in life! And to have found the one you want to spend the rest of ur life with at the age of 15 couldn't be more perfect!....but the reality of it is this, ur family does not approve and ur only 15.  If ur thinking of a promise ring, I can only imagine that ur thinking marriage in the future, right?  Before you make any decisions think about how committed you have to be to be in a marriage. Major responsiblily. Its not just waking up lookin goo goo eyed at each other. You have to WORK for a marriage...but ur question was promise ring so back to the main question.  If you are that serious, and so is he, than I would sit down with ur parents, let them know you respect them and you don't want to go against their wishes but also let them know how you feel and that u would like them to respect ur feelings.  I strongly recommend NOT goin against ur parents wishes. If u guys are that serious, than a little more time never hurt anyone. Besides 5 months is like 2 wks when ur tryin to get to know someone! please don't rush. Also maybe try asking ur parents if at least the only way u could see him is if he came to the house to hang wit you and the fam. Ur fam might respect that and take u more seriously and start to loosen the reins a little more.  family knows best, so don't overlook their wisdom and knowledge. they speak from experience.

Answer 7

i don't think so!

good evening!

Answer 8

Umm....kind of soon, but you're too young