I remarried over a yr ago to a great guy who yearns for a family. Here are the "barriers" set before us:
I turned 50.
Hubby is 40 at end of this year.
I'm healthy, but have strong menopausal signs physically with my cycles. Never gave birth ever.
Hubby is 100% disabled, stroke in wheelchair. He has limited use of one side. He is capable of independent living
Our combined incomes is just under $45k/year, where we live the combined avg incomes is $72-75k, so we're behind the 8-ball there.
My credit is great, over 720+, but high credit card debt
Hubby's credit is low, 500+, has very little debt
No home, renting apartment now
Supporting Family Structure:
My parents in 80's, Siblings kids grown, 2nd generation being born now. All live within 2 hours of us.
Hubby: orphan & adopted. Parents passed. No siblings.
Firstoff, I expect "NO"s, but are there any among you with a "YES" to move forward...pls give good reasons of YES for us...I need something positive to move forward
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