Is EVERYONE in a relationship besides ME??

Question

Ok, so here I go again.......My bestfriend just called me telling me that she went on a date with this really cute guy ladayadaya......

anyway she kept talking about how much she likes him and stuff and the one thing that really made me think was when she starting talking about how my other friends are now in a relationship and stuff....

so then I told her that I feel like EVERYONE is in a relationship EXEPT FOR ME! and she felt bad, but I felt bad and selfish for making her feel bad because this was her time to share her fun with me.....

anyway it got me thinking a lot, and I've felt like this for a while.....I've been single for almost a year and a half now, and I know it's because it's my senior year and I'm sick of the people in my school (sick of seeing them everyday, since I grew up with them)

and I think....well I know that I'm not really going out (not at all) or going anywhere....all I do is go to work, go home, go to work, go home......and mainly because after work i'm so exhausted to do anything that I don't feel like it.......

I know to find new people I have to go somewhere different....but see....the only friends I have that are single like me, that won't talk about guys, is my best-guy-friend.......

I don't want to ask him for any advice on it because I feel stupid talking and complaining about it. I KNOW its something stupid to be upset about not being taken, but I just can't help it.....

especially since my ex broke my heart really bad....I feel and KNOW I should enjoy life, I'm turning 18 in a couple of days, I know I should feel optomistic about this next year and what being 18 will bring to me....PLUS it's my senior year......

I don't know I just want help and for you guys to please give me some advice....I'm feeling pretty left out and upset.....

Thank you all for your time and help, I really appreciate it!

Answer 1

you are very young take your time it takes time to get to know someone dont jump in because your friends do go slow when you find the right one you will know  

Answer 2

im not n a realasionship...*sigh*...but i hope i will soon, cuz man...im BOREDDD!!!!!

Answer 3

no  but trust me bieng the way u are is okay

Answer 4

If you not in a relationship it is because you were not meant to be at this time. There is a time and place for everyone, so obviously it's not your time yet.

   But sure, "if you look hard enough, you'll find it in all the wrong ppl".  

   Are you realy in that much of a hurry to have your heart broken again??  

   When your friends are in pain and heartbroken, do you also wish for that, so you can fit in, give it time, i guarentee some of their relationships won't last either.

    Your path in life may very well cross theirs, but it's curves, bends and direction were not meant to follow theirs, so you better get use to that.

     Like it or not, your just a "kid" if you consider your yrs on this planet and not the views of society. Even when it comes to relationships...high school was only practise for learning, experiencing and ppl skills, non of those relationships were meant to last.

      So quit acting like, your an old maid !! When you finally do meet the right guy for you, you'll be glad you didn't bother with just any old "Joe", for the sake of talk or fitting in!!

       The best thing you could do is enjoy yourself while building a life and "nest egg" for a future, try get ahead now, make life a lot easier, less stressful for yourself and the one you intend to spend your life with. Chances are there's a man out there doing the same for someone he has not met either.

Answer 5

You soon will be in a relationship

just lean back and enjoy the ride

Answer 6

dont worry im not in a relationship either and some people just take longer than other people.

---just relax and enjoy life.

---good luck