Is EVIL stronger than GOOD ?

Question

Then why is my friend being taken away to the darkside ? I know she

meant well at first, but now she is dying inside. She met a man, and

let him move in after only 30 days. Things got worse. He started

checking her emails, and cell phone messages. She became depressed, and even started smoking again. Evil is here, and it is

because of this man. He forced her to stop talking to me for good.

I did not get a call from her since June 25th. She got into a fight

with him that night. That was the last time I heard from her. I told the

cops about it on last week. They checked on her, she is fine. But is

afraid to tell people about her situation. She is in a state of turmoil.

What do you think she is feeling today, right now about her life ?

What is going on in her mind ?

Answer 1

It seems that u are confusing ur friends bad decisions into something its not.

Checking emails and messages is overprotective NOT EVIL...

Couples argue all the time...

He probly wants her to stop calling u cuz ur too involved.

If she really felt this bad she would leave him or get a restraining order.

Maybe ur feelings are clouding ur judgement

Answer 2

You are waaaay too obsessed with this....Every question you ever ask is about this woman on the dark side who has been brain-washed with voodoo or something!

You are obviously still in love with her, but she may not be with you anymore.... You need to move on with your life. She is a grown woman and if she wants to leave, she will.

You need to ask yourself WHY you keep thinking and obsessing over your ex!

The cops are satisfied, and the boyfriend is probably banning your calls, arguing with her about you, and checking emails and messages, because you are in love with her, and he feels like you should back off, and are out of order to behave like this with his girl friend.

Answer 3

Maybe she has acclimatised to the dark side and does not feel worthy of you anymore. He is very controlling and he seems to be fixated or spellbound. Smoking is a terrible habit and symptomatic of her moving towards the darkness. It is not entirely impossible to save a soul that has transmorphed in such a manner, yet I do not feel the predicament she has recently found herself embroiled within, is worthy of your attentions.

Maybe she has resigned her mindset to the situation created about her. Let it go and move forward. Let it be.

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Answer 4

The Q is not about the concepts of good and evil which are proper subjects in philosophy. It seems you have a personal issue  w/someone and are looking for support in the matter. You are asking the Q in the wrong category. Look up the relationships category and post your plea for help in a more honestly explained way. Maybe someone can help you there!

Answer 5

Do you want to hear about Good and Evil or Abuse or Obsession?  

She is in an abusive relationship.  She needs support.  They have hotline numbers she can use.  

You seem a bit obsessed though, because you called the police without a clear indication that there was a problem.  You could have gone over there just like the police did.  She has a BF now and she may be pulling away from you as a friend which may be wrong but it happnens. Good luck.

Good and Evil - Good is more powerful then evil.  They both exist and a different times dwell in all beings.  

Answer 6

Evil can be a choking force. It can blind and disable a person to the point that they don't know which way is up. Evil deceives the person into actually believing that what they're doing is right.

I once went into a marriage that no man should have ever entered into even under the threat of mutilation or death. My life B4 the union was in a very bad way and no one knew the why of my actions. I went in big a strong I weighed  250 pounds and was a tower of strength. In less than a year I was down to 150 pounds and looked like a ad for the walking dead. I came to my senses and got the h**l gone from there.

Evil she was so evil she was smoking. Years later she molested her own son. How evil is that?

Answer 7

if he just controlling with other qualitieis that excuse this singular failing then you must back off while he warms to you (you may seem a threat to him - you do after all know his girl better than he does right now) .

If he is detrimental to her then you cannot let her suffer you must fight for your friend.

you must find out from her somehow so your first task is to circumvent his irrational ban on her contact with you, then when you do speak let her know she can rely on you. find out the recent update on her true feelings and offer her help ( including your home and food if she has gotten herself into a situation that beyond her and which she needs help to get out of .). If he is OK overall despite his failing you need to learn to see the qualities in him that she does so you willhave to bite your tongue a little as you get to know him.

Go into it with an open mind

good luck.

TE

Answer 8

I don't think this is a matter of evil or good but rather pure naivety  on the part of your friend for allowing a man to control her in that sort of way.

Right now I'd say she's either trying to convince herself that she isn't in a "bad situation" and that whatever "abuse" she may be suffering is somehow her fault. This is all too common a response in these types of cases. Alternatively she's trying to find her own way out of the relationship without worrying or disturbing any of her friends or family. She may even think that she being a burden to you all.

If you still want an answer to the question of whether or not evil is stronger than good. First a definition must be established for both those terms and honestly, i don't think that good and evil can ever have objective definitions. Apart from that, although you obviously care of your friend. You need to back off and not smother her in anyway. That may only serve to push her away from you. My opinion: she should drop the b*****d like there's no tomorrow

Answer 9

Don't get evil confused with just being an A@%hole and get his "strength" over her confused with her weakness and neediness.. We all know the story.. why do chicks love a@%holes...Most don't respect nice guys because they appear week to the animal instinct part of  the female animal. It all comes down to Perceived provider. The tougher he is the better MAN he is...And I thought  we had grown past that...maybe not.

Oh! and ofcourse I dont meen ALL woman!!.......just the ones here in Socal  ; )

Answer 10

Sometimes when a friend or Relative is in a lot of turmoil, we, who are close to her/him, want to help them in any way we can, and it is frustrating to do because all your good intentions you want to do, go out the Window, and I am going to explain to you why.

Your Friend, when she met this Person, that she thought was all she had hoped he would be,but  with time she found out he was not all she had hoped he would be to her, her Dreams went down the Drain, as their Relationship went from bad to worse.

My answer to your Question is, that there is no Evil in the relationship your Friend and this Guy have, the only thing she can do is realize that this relationship was not meant to be, and remove herself from his side, and move on with her Life, and to you I would tell you that you have done all you can for her, and if  there is no more you can do for her, Please detach yourself from this situation, and let her  find out what to do with her Life, you have done more than enough, and I think that you need to concentrate on yourself, and move on.