Is He Interested In Me??? Opinions PLEASE LOL!!!?

Question

Hey there

Ok so a few weeks ago i met this guy in work and he was lovely, got on well and flirted a little bit. Then on a regular work night out, after a few hours of flirting we kissed a little bit. I enjoyed it and that was that,

Anyways few weeks have gone by and i know alot more about him, we talk everyday, either through IM'S or actually speaking!! Alot of flirting has been going on, texting occasionally. At times he has waited for me after work to walk to the station with me.

He keeps saying that he figures that the whole 'treat them mean, keep them keen' works usually as when i ask him fi he likes me .. this is all he replies!!! But IT IS WORKING LOL and he knows it and keeps asking me if it is and i am a terrible liar so thats why he knows it!!

Last night more kissing and a little bit of naughtiness happend in a club lol and well i really enjoyed it and asked him back to mine but he declined, stating he was meeting his friends in town. OK, But a week ago i asked him round for a drink and he decline saying after his holiday. He goes away next week for 2weeks and i go away for a week.

WHY WOULD HE SAY THAT.... im very confused as i feel like im going to fall for this guy!!

I need opinions on this please.

Oh also i keep making most of the innuendo's, and he is the one not taking me up on what i want(some fun lol) is this him saying he dont want anything or is he holding back for another reason.. possibly wanting it to be more than sexual??????

See ... i said i was confused lol

xx

Answer 1

He totally likes you and is wrapping you around his finger. He wants to go farther with you but knows if he can wait just a bit longer it's going to drive you crazy (and it has) and will make you want him even that much more (which it has). It's a PUA trick... he's performing great ;-). Stick with it, but better yet play the game right back.

Answer 2

Despite all his bravado, there is quite possibly a problem in that he has shall we say, small tackle, or that quite possibly he is inexperienced and doesn't want to be, in what he sees, as exposed as no good in bed.

Clearly he's winding you in like a prize salmon on a line, so maybe Now is the time (however hard for yourself) to treat him a to a bit of his own medicine, and let him see how frustrating it can be.

withdraw any favours, as clearly he is teasing you something crazy. what's right for one is right for the other.

Mike t.

Answer 3

Me confused too.

Yes, I think he wants a little more than slap and tickle or he wants to be the one tickling you for a long time, like maybe a relationship as guys never turn down a woman unless they want more from her than her coochie or don't want her at all, which he does want you.

Take your time and think about him, is he BF material?  If he is, wait those 2 weeks and when you finally get together, it will be fun.

Answer 4

aarrghh.. with regards to your advertisement for your question on my question when you answered..

this question of yours is detailed, i read it, but still kinda like am not clear with it..

SORRY

Answer 5

I think you need to reverse the role and play hard to get because no male is supposed to have to be that difficult to decipher. If he thinks he is hot sh*t then you need to make him chase you. If he really likes you then treat him like a dog for a few days and he will roll over if your commands work properly. Every dog has his day.

Answer 6

it sounds like he's playin you but it also sounds like he's in to you so i see why your confused chick!

a gut was the same with me, an now wer goin with eachother!

he obviously like you when he "wants to keep you keen!!"lol so why dont you try his technique and treat him a little "meaner" so he'l be a little "keener!"

ps about the declining thing, he's possibly a virgin and doesnt want to rush in because he's scared or something! and hides it with over acting, dont rule it out!

just go for it, you will happen in good time, just be patient!

Answer 7

it sounds like he's playing hard to get

Answer 8

maybe he his not attracted to you anymore after he kissed you. I guess you might have to check your oral hygiene's take care of your teeth and have fresh breath at all time and change the way you kiss don't be too rough don't bite their lips or tongue make it soft and take it easy let them lead you just follow they will show you the move of how they like to kiss.

Answer 9

Ask him.

Answer 10

you know what if you txt him alot just txt him with hey and then leave it if he replys just dont send back and on msn or whatever you use try to tell him how you feal and i have something in my mind that tells me that he is cheating on you because of keep them MEAN and keep them KEEN so obviously he wants you to be keen about him and yer

hope this helps cos thats all i know