Is It Bad To Keep To Myself?

Question

I love being alone. I'm 14 years old and usually im in my room reading, playing guitar, or watching t.v. Is this bad? I'm also in cadets and guitar lessons so I'm not inside every single day. Usually I'll go out once a week to see a movie with friends or just hang out. Or I'll have people over at my house to go swimming in my above ground pool. I'm attractive and I'm still asked out by alot of girls. I was just curious, is playing guitar or watching t.v or just basically keeping to myself most the time bad? I'm also not overweight or anything.

Answer 1

its not bad but its not good. go out sometime and socialize.  

Answer 2

That's not a bad thing at all, lots of guys are like that. Maybe it's the fact that you're laid back, calm, and quiet is the reason why they like you.

Answer 3

Here's a list: A gift card for her favorite store or jewelry,nail polish,room things,make-up,hair things,sunglasses,clothes,shoes,candy,bl... whatever you think would be best if your not sure at all a gift card and card would be nice

Answer 4

No, why would you think that! As long as you get fresh air like every once in a while, and take a break, and stretch, and you eat healthy, and are still sociable, why are you bad? Reading makes you smarter, and enhances your vocabulary, and playing your guitar is good practice. That just means you like having yourself as company a lot, and like to be alone, but like having your friends over every once in a while. You sound like the average teenager, to me!

Answer 5

It is completely normal. But if your emotions get to out of hand, some of these methods work for me...

Write it on a piece of paper then burn it or tear it up

Scream into a pillow.. lol

Tense up you shoulders and make you hands into a fist then relax

yeah pretty much

hope this helped!

Answer 6

It's not bad as long as you're happy.  However, you should definitely pursue whatever it is that truly interests you.  Live life to the fullest... you don't want to regret it when you're older.

Answer 7

It can be bad. It's imortant to develope social skills when you are young, because first impressions are everything. My mom kept to herself and when she went to events with my Dad, she just didn't know how to act around people.

Answer 8

that is definitely not bad, as long as you get out amongst people a couple times a week then that's fine. Just watch it though because sometimes people can tend to forget about the outside world and before they know it they have no friends and don't care, being 14 that is a worry. Everybody needs friends whether they think so or not, we all need friends. It's much healthier to interact with people occasionally otherwise you will have problems when your stuck in sociable situations.  

Answer 9

Im am like that too.  It is ok but if you have some sort of emotional thing bugging you you should talk to at least someone,