Is My Mom Too Strict.?

Question

basics, is my mom too strict.

im 14

i've got a boyfriend, we've been going out for 7 months and we were having the massive sleep over, and my mom didn't want me too go, i don't know why, i'm not slu*ty or anything

then i wanted the marc jacobs stam bag, so my parents got it for me, here it ishttp://i2.iofferphoto.com/img/item/259/905/66/o_MJstamblk.jpg

then my sister whos like 10 broke my new ghds,by accident, so i swore at her, so my mom took my bag away.

and i need ghds cos ive got this hair style http://lh5.ggpht.com/_5zn85BdgXs4/R_qy5YsxUxI/AAAAAAAAATo/Eq7lt1eTsqw/miley-cyrus-cast-458-20.jpg

so i had to use my moms for like a month until i got new ones.

and its really annoying that i cannot go to a boys house to sleep cos amy friends are allowed to go to their boyfriends house to sleep cos the most ive done is got with him and i dont wanna go further until like 20 lol. i just want to have fun

but then my mom does buy me mac make up.& stuff.

so is she too strict?

Answer 1

She is'nt the one with a problem here! YOU ARE!

Answer 2

Your mom is not strict. h**l my parents wouldn't let me go to anyone's house for a sleepover until I turned 16 and that was after years and years and years of trying to convince them. You may plan not to do anything until your 20 but plans change. You might get caught up in the moment. Your luckly your mom buys you makeup and stuff you want. I only got to go clothes shopping once a year and if i wanted makeup i had to get a job to get money to buy it. You have it lucky. My parents didn't even want me having a boyfriend until i was 18. Enjoy what you have cause so many other people has it so much worse than you.

Answer 3

Is your mom making you smell her stinky feet?

Answer 4

I don't think she is. You are only 14. You have no reason to sleep at your boyfriends house. If you see him in the day you should be fine to sleep at your own house. Stop complaining. If the only thing you have to worry about is how your mom took away your designer purse because you cussed at your little sister and that she won't let you sleep at some guys house you are very lucky. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You are blessed with a mom who cares and you should be thankful for her and hush!

Answer 5

shes just being a good responsible parent

be thankful for what she does give you!

Answer 6

Well.... my dear...

Over a dozen people have told you now, that your Mom is behaving perfectly RIGHT !!! And... I have to agree ! As a matter of fact, you should be glad to have such a caring, concerned MOM !!!! Once you're "grown" & have children of your own.... first then... you will understand her position !!! As a matter of fact, she's quite... liberal when she lets you use make-up, etc. - To be real honest, I think you're having it ... Tooooo good & do not know to appreciate the "things" you have !!! You should be grateful, young lady to have such competent parents !!!

Wish you all the best for the future ! greetings from Gerany ... Annette***

Answer 7

@_@... She is not strict. She is being a mom!

For instance, you wanted to sleep over your boyfriend's house. YOU may not want to pursue into "something" but your boyfriend may have other plans! She just don't want to go to jail for murder!

Just because she broke your thing, it could have been a accident! You didn't have to cuss at her!

Answer 8

She's not too strict Hun, she's just making sure you are safe. She loves you, remember everything she does is out of love unless she leaves a mark.

Answer 9

Your mom's not strict. She's just being a good parent.

Answer 10

wow no. My mom would never let me go to a boys house to even hang out at 14. Of course she wouldn't let you sleep over, she doesn't know what you do or what your boyfriend might do. My god you are 14. I agree she is being a good mom, stop complaining, that isn't even that bad.

Answer 11

She's not too strict. No 14 year old should be able to sleep over at their boyfriend's house. She's being a good parent.

Answer 12

kinda

Answer 13

No, she sounds slightly unstrict. She sounds like a good mom

Answer 14

she isn't being strict she is being a mom.

Answer 15

You should not be going to co-ed sleep over that this age; that is not being strict it is smart.

Answer 16

14 is way too young to be sleeping over a guys house.

Answer 17

Your parents are right.  Things can and do get out of hand.  What happens if your boyfriend won't take no for an answer anymore?  

All your other friends will wind up pregnant before they are 18.  Sit back and watch.

Answer 18

No, not at all. My sister at 16 wasn't allowed to sleepover at a boy's house for homecoming, even though they were right next to the parents room with a group of people at the sleepover. she's now 17 and still can't have sleepovers.

you're mom spoils you a lot, appreciate it.

Answer 19

ur moms not strict! ur luckyy... my mom doesnt lemme haf a boyfriend till im like 20, but she does let me go 2 any1s house to sleepoverr nahh i think shes tryin 2 b a good parent even tho it tottally messes wif ur social life.