Is She Interested or Not???

Question

Ok- so I asked this girl last night if she wanted to go mini golfing today. She didn't give me a 'yes' or 'no', but she said, "I'd probably be up for that. Get ahold of me tomorrow." So today I text her and asked if she wanted to meet up for the mini golf, she said that she would like to but she is "worn out" and she suggested meeting up for coffee sometime this week. I responded back asking if she wanted to meet up tomorrow night? She said that she wants to do that and she will give me a call when she gets off work around 5:00. Then about 15 minutes later, she texts me saying she "just remembered she has to go to a baseball game with her Sister." So I said that is cool we can just meet up after the game if you want or maybe on Wed. night? She didn't say yes or no she just responded with, "I'll give you a call tomorrow." So, what do you make of this? Is she interested because she keeps trying to reschedule, or is she playing games and just doesn't want to say no or what? Any and all opinions appreciated!

Answer 1

thats a no

Answer 2

girls sometimes give mixed signals so you may never know if she is really telling the truth.Try to ask her when she is free and she should make sure she is free at that time

Answer 3

shes playing games with you!

Answer 4

no she isnt, sorry. she seems like she is making excuses and she will keep doin that untill u give up. wait 4 her 2 ask u 2 do something. in the meantime find some1 new

Answer 5

your smothering her... play harder to get. you can't take up her whole schedule

Answer 6

The fact that she tries to plan other dates to hang out shows she does care about you, but I do think maybe she just sees you a friend. Any girl that gets asked to go out with someone she likes will jump at the chance. Maybe you should wait for her to plan a date and time that's good for you, so that you don't constantly get stuck with, "sorry, I can't..."

Answer 7

I think she just doesn't want to say no to you =(

Answer 8

i think that she is interested if she talks to you and respondes on your texts

trust me from expirience there was a guy i wasnt interested in so i didnt talk to him and i didnt responde back

but coming from a girl i deff. think shes interested

hope i helped!

coco

Answer 9

no she isn't she has all but said get lost. she is always going to be doing something else. so let it go move on. there is a better looking women out there jumping at the chance to go out with you.

Answer 10

Man, that sucks.  Seriously, I feel bad for ya man.  This has happened to me once.  Basically...she keeps rescheduling because she doesn't want to go out with you.  She just likes you as a friend, or she doesn't like you at all.  

You kept making yourself seem needy by saying "or maybe on Wednesday night?"  

That is a BIG no-no in the world of dating.  

So let's recap:  

1.  She never gave you a "yes" or "no" or any definite answer when you first asked her out.  This means she doesn't want to go out with you, but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings...so she said "I'd probably be up for that."

2.  She said, "let's get coffee" but then she quickly called you back and let you down for the 2nd time.

3.  She responded with "I'll call you tomorrow," because she didn't have any plans for Wednesday night, but she knew that she didn't want her plan to be "going out with you to get coffee."  She let you down a 3rd time.

4.  She is not interested.  However, she could have done the mature thing and told you "Sorry, I'm not interested, but thank you."  She is very immature, and I garauntee you...if you two DID date, she would not be a very good girlfriend, and you would end up breaking up with her.  LOL.    If she calls you, don't answer.   Make her wonder, "What is he doing?  Surely he's not too busy for me..."    

If she calls back a 2nd time later that day or sometime that week, THEN you can answer the phone and schedule a date.  Make sure that YOU schedule the date.  Good luck.  Don't let her control your free time.  Let her know that you have a life too, and that SHE will have to work at it to be in your life.  

Answer 11

i think that it would probably b best for you to just move on. id say she doesnt want to hurt your feelings.  

Answer 12

move on bro. she's a tease

Answer 13

she might genuinely be a busy person, and since she wants to reschedule, it seems like she does want hang out. Don't come off as too desperate to hang out. This time, leave it up to her. If she comes to you when she's actually free, then it means she wanted to hang out; but it not, then oh well. If she's interested she ought to make time.

But anyway, don't jump to any conclusions just yet. See if she'll call you this time.

Answer 14

She is just playing hard to get.

Likes messing with your head. Forget

about her.