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Is Suicide the Solution?

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I have been depressed for 5 years and I have been cutting for 4 years and I think of suicide when I am cast out from my friends, and made fun of and it seems to be happening alot more often. I have not told anyone about this before or asked about it.

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I have thought the same way you have. It isn't the way to happiness. I read this and found it really interesting ad it helped me quite a bit. http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/ Also, you can find a link to a volunteer group called the Samaritans. These people are extremely nice and will go by the alias of "Jo". Suicide is the last resort for people with less coping resources and more pain. It's a worth while read.
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Both of my grandmothers and my brother-in-law committed suicide, so I am well aware of the effects of suicide on a family.

Please believe me when I say that suicide is NOT an answer.  Because of your depression, you are not thinking clearly and are unable to truly know the impact of your life on those around you.  And you cannot imagine the negative impact and the void that would be left behind without you in the world.

You are a unique and amazing creation!  No one else in the world is, or ever has been, exactly like you.  That makes you so very special and I am so sorry that your depression and your circumstances are preventing you from knowing that and embracing the qualities that make you uniquely YOU.

But I promise that when you get past this - AND YOU WILL, you will be so very glad that you stuck it out.  I have been where you are and it does get better if you are willing to reach deep down inside and find the divine spirit within you.  It is there and it is stronger than you think.

Please find someone to talk with that you trust, preferably a counselor or doctor that can help you get past this.

The world would be greatly diminished without the contributions that ONLY YOU can make.  Don't put yourself, your family, or the world in that position.  Find your source, PRAY - God will not desert you!  God loves you and so do SO MANY people in your life!  You just can't see it right now, but you will come to see in the in the future if you just reach out.

This is the first step, don't stop here!  Ask for help.  I will pray for you and I promise that it will get better!!!

Suicide is irreversible and ends the light that only you can shine.  Don't extinguish that light - the world needs what only you can give.  You are valued and needed by so many more than you know.  Give yourself time to discover that and find your own voice.  It is there and it is important!
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Suicide isn't ever the solution.All murderers go to h**l.Suicide makes everything worse.It doesn't make anything better.You were meant to live for so much more.The world is not better without you especially considering the fact that the world is already doing it's corrupt things.Killing yourself is bad.Cutting isn't the solution either.It makes everything worse.You have to ignore all of the people who make fun of you.People are going to talk about you no matter what because they find comfort in that.If they don't pick on you,they're going to do it to someone else too so it shouldn't matter of what they think of you.You don't need your friends if they are going to keep casting you out.They obviously aren't true friends.You can find better friends than them.This is th thing that you should be thinking,"GOD is with me and GOD cares about me and loves me besides,I deserve better than the friends that I have."GOD does love you and GOD doesn't want to see you commit suicide or anything.Pray to GOD about this.This is something internally.You need to find out the root of why you are feeling so depressed.You need to forget what other people think of you because the only thing that matters is what GOD thinks of you.You should find some better friends and you should ignore the people who make fun of you for they have nothing else better to do.There is a such thing as karma or at least to me.You should also talk to your parents about this.Your parents wil love you no matter what.But you really shouldn't commit suicide,it is not worth it.You should enjoy every minute of life because life is precious.I hope I helped you in one way or another.GOD BLESS you!
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No absolutely not,, God is always there for you,, go to him. & you should definetely get help from a psycologist. I've gone plenty of times & you can also get medicine for depression. Don't ever think about killing yourself. God has a purpose for your life. <33
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Ever since my parents got divorced I've been the same way...

Nothing seems to cheer me up and I've ran out of tears so basicly I feel no emotions.

At school I'm treated like an outcast and no one cares to speak to me.

But I've started listening to Good Charlotte and It's really helped me through some tough times.

They're what's getting me through this blur.

Trust me, Don't commit suicide.

It's not the answer... Things WILL get better.

Also, think about what you're leaving behind..

I mean of course you automaticly think of leaving behind your remorse and pain...

But what if the grass isn't greener on the other side?

What if a lot of people care about you?

What are you losing?

Look... Things have started lightening up for me too in various reasons.

So just trust me.

Don't do it and keep living life.

In order for it to get better, YOU have to be willing to sacrifice a few things :]

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Step 1: Ensure your emotion is controlled daily. Don't over reacted, stay calm and don't get worry easily

Step 2: Think before your action. Don't repeat her past experience on herself. Remind herself from time to time.

Step 3: Be confident to yourselves. Remember everyone is the winner. "Only One sperms out of millions fertilize an egg"

Step 4: Get a group of close friends to share your experience and get some activities that would occupied your time

Step 5: Increase scope of life. Meaning that she should involve in more social activities like dancing, outing and others.

Step 6: Put a rubberband on the wrist. If there is a negative thought, Tighten the rubber band and release it. Hence the effect of the pain would be able to reduce the possibility of negative thought.

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Go for it, i did
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOO! DON'T DO IT!
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Seek help. You need to see a doctor.
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Suicide is a PERMINANT solution to a TEMPORARY problem.

Cutting makes you more depressed.

Just DON'T do it.

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are you serious? Your going to give up on life because things have gotten a bit hard. ******* get out there and make some new friends that care about you instead of worrying about what others think of you, feeling bad for yourself and contemplating suicide. If you want to p**s away your life then go for it, but if you want to live your life and try to change your lifestyle it would be a better choice. When life gets tough don't give up just like that.
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There is always hope, even in the darkest recesses of your mind. Suicide will always be a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

If you're feeling really suicidal, and you feel lacking in hope, please call a suicide hotline, trusted friend, or your doctor.
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not unless your Hitler revived suicide is never an answer.

seek professional help.

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