Is There Redemption From The Friend Zone?

Question

I've had 2 wifes and relationships in the past so I'm not a total afc.

But since I've been divorced, my best and only male friend died.

I think being around him improved my chances with women.

Some perceive me as maybe g*y on first impression.

But I usually end up in the friends zone.

Actually all of my friends (4) are female.

Two are L*****n and bi. and the other two are straight.

I've had a crush for some time on one of the straight ones.

She even said I was cute, but she doesn't see me as more than a friend.

First off, why don't women wanna just "suck face" or play with a friend for the h3ll of it.

And can I get out of the FZ and get the respect I deserve from her?

Answer 1

Come here. Im straight and I'll have no problem "sucking face".

Well the only things that come to mind why a women wouldn't want to suck face or have fun is because they obviously don't see you as anything more then that. They don't want to lead you on. They dont want the friendship ruined or at all uncomfortable.

She might of said your cute..But it doesn't mean she finds you attractive or have any attraction towards you in the sucking face sort of way.

Depending on how long you two have been friends...She might see you as brother sort of.

What do you mean get respect from her ?

Answer 2

You wrote "She even said I was cute, but she doesn't see me as more than a friend." So this is the answer to your question - she only sees you as a friend.

You wrote "First off, why don't women wanna just "suck face" or play with a friend for the h3ll of it."

I can't answer for all women, but as a woman, I don't want to play or have s*x just for fun. I only want s*x within the context of a serious relationship.

You wrote "get the respect I deserve from her?" Why do you think she doesn't respect you? It seems to me that she respected you enough to tell you the truth and not to play games with you.

Perhaps the best thing for you to do is keep this woman just as a friend and look for someone else to be your girlfriend. Perhaps this woman even knows someone for you - why not ask her?