Is This A Big Problem?

Question

me and my fiance are long distance. we have been doing well but she has a problem with saying that she is gonna call and doesnt. so a couple nights ago she did this again and i called her late and she said she was bored so she went to her neighbors and was cooking dinner. i got pretty mad and i told her that she really pisses me off sometimes, and she started going crazy about how shes a horrible girl and i deserve better. this was a couple days ago, and lastnight she told me she loves me and that she would call later, again she didnt. then today she didnt contact me all day until i called and she got off quickly saying shes at dinner. i sent her a text asking if shes pissed at me and shes like "im at dinner seriously." is this a big problem for me?

Answer 1

yes honey it is you need to just leave her be. There are to many ladies on the world that does want your love and attention and you are waisting your time on her when it sounds to me like she is with someone else and just dont know how to tell you that she has gone on with her life and you should too. I know that it is hard but the best way to get over someone is to find someone else. It will take 2 or 3 weeks and then you will only think of her every now and then. So if she calls you say look this is not working out and I want to go on with my life. I gotta go by and let that be that. You can do it honey.  

Answer 2

yes

Answer 3

I don't like to talk on the phone when I'm having dinner either.! Maybe that's all shes doing. She does have a life. Why don't u meet with each other for a weekend and spend some time together?  

Answer 4

Could be a problem. My fiancee left me telling me that I deserve better. She ended up getting pregnant by someone else. If she sounds insecure about your relationship or has second thoughts about the wedding she might have cold feet or has doubts if you're the one for her. Someone could be poisoning her mind with insecurity. Tell her to keep away from people that are trying to give her negative feedback on getting married. she'll only get more doubts. Hope you can convince her that you'll make her happy and she won't need anyone else but you. Good luck  

Answer 5

Yep. She's having dinner with someone and you are annoying her. Your concern about the phone call deal doesn't seem to be a priority with her. Long distance relationships never work, man.

Answer 6

You can't expect her not to live her life - seriously, she has other things to do apart from phoning you.  Still, if she doesn't *want* to phone you, then maybe she's losing interest.

Answer 7

If it happens everytime something is wrong. Just be unavilable to her when she calls.  Be busy if you answer.  She will get the message

Answer 8

Be very glad that she has a life other then you.  Trust me, you don't want a woman to focus on just you and only you and have nothing else in their lives.   The attention you get is nice for awhile, but believe me, your going to wish she had those friends one day.

I don't see it as a big problem, your in a good spot right now.  Sounds like she has low self esteem and thinks highly of you, and is greatful that you put up with her.  Not saying there is anything wrong with her, she's probably pretty good, just low self esteem does very funny things to women.

Answer 9

Dude, you got a huge problem.  To put it gently, she's riding another pony.