Is a Text only friend a health friendship?

Question

I have a friend who I have known for the past year...she is wonderful,very bright,pretty,humorous,strong minded...etc I really try my best to get her to understand that I care for her. She always asked me how i'm doing and always worries about me, but when it comes to outside of work there is nothing. She has only ever talked to me outside of work by text msg, i've tried to invite her over for somethings,but she seems to always be busy. She as text me many times after leaving concerts and sometimes just to see how i'm doing, but again its always just text msg. She has never called me to see how i'm doing just plain text msg. Even thou i feel so privileged that she does that for me,but sometimes i feel she might be ashamed of me or embarrassed. So what does one think of a friendship like this...should i not be worried and just go w/the flow...or should i worry?

Answer 1

Some people are just more comfortable talking through text. I'm the same way... if you want to pursue something...ask her out- personally, I hate the phone, things can get awkward if there's a pause or silence... so she may just not be a phone person. Good luck!

Answer 2

She doesnt like you "LIKE THAT".

She only LIKES you as a FRIEND...

If shes not going to make an effort to talk to you more then a text message; Move on, and find a  girl that likes you MORE THEN A FRIEND...

And she feels if shes ATLEAST texting you she can ATLEAST have you as a frriend. But other then that she doesnt care. sorry.

Answer 3

she is your friend and is comfortable with texting you.  why don't you ask her why is texting her only form of communication?