Is a co-worker who is married cheating?

Question

I work with a lady who is married, but the last three weeks she has come to work wearing Dresses/skirts and heels when before she was very casual hardly ever wore heels. Also she has been going to lunch by herself when before she would eat with some of the co-workers. Her husband travels a lot for work. She has also seemed very relaxed also.

Answer 1

No maybe she's gaining self confidence.

Answer 2

She just likes to dress like a freak. That DOLT of a husband is waiting for the upskirts video's of her on youtube.com

Answer 3

  I bet you are her hubby aren't you?  Sounds like she needed a change and it worked well for her.  Could be alot of reasons she is not eating lunch with co-workers right now.  Maybe someone offended her in the group or she has other business she is using her lunch for. She also could be looking for another job to boot,

Answer 4

Just because a woman changes her wardrobe doesn't mean that she is cheating .

I have to wonder and ask why do you feel that this is of any your concern ? You're not married to her , right ? It's really no ones business what she does what she wears or who she eats lunch with .

This is how nasty rumors get started in the work place . Instead of worrying so much about her why not try and focus more on doing your job .

I'm sorry but it really irritates me when people put their noses where they don't belong .

Answer 5

What business is that of YOURS?  Get a girlfriend & a life dude.  Maybe she bought some new clothes or lost a few pounds.  Maybe she's running errands or getting her nails done.  Whatever.

Answer 6

Ask her, even if as a bit of a joke...just say, are you off to lunch with your secret boyfriend..

Answer 7

No.  She just decided to change her wardrobe and maybe she feels better about herself than before.  Maybe she also feels like being alone now.  Leave her alone.  Btw, you sound like your interested.