Is a divorce in my future?

Question

I feel we are growing apart, he and I.

Answer 1

Maybe  if your growing apart , better start a plan just in case.

Answer 2

I HOPE NOT

Answer 3

Call a 900 number, you will get about the same accuracy as an anonymous source on the internet.

Answer 4

If any - after 15-20 years and at mutual understanding.

Answer 5

I suspect that you at least can have some influence over whether this happens or not. If you do not want it to happen then open communication between the two of you and/or possibly seeing a counselor could assist you.

I have also listed links to two books that I have known to be helpful to people in the past. They may or may not work for you.

Psi

Answer 6

Sure, it's called a self fulfilling prophecy. Try marriage counseling.

Answer 7

this depends on your marriage life

Answer 8

only you can answer that question.  It would be like asking if my hubby cheating and how can I tell.  The bottom line there is if you need to ask that question, the answer is going to be yes.

Answer 9

I can feel that you love him very much.

   your anger is clouding things. and you feel guilt as well...let these emotions go, and what you'll find is true love...it's a two way street.. he is not being considerate at all either.. but not cold...his contempt is out of love,,he loves you very much too.  things are messed up right now, but they can be mended. I know it seems right now that is an impossibility..but give it a little time

Answer 10

Get out!  Get out!  wherever you are!!

Answer 11

Well, I just looked at other questions you have posted and a couple recent ones were:

"Anyone out there hooked on MySpace, why?"

"Can you keep a secret?

If I tell you a secret will you promise not to tell anyone in any upcoming conversations? I have to tell someone now!"

And a recent answer of yours regarding your husband:

"He doesn't care, he knows it pisses me off, so he does it every day, and i clean after him but have to yell at him for doing it, i hate him."

It seems to me like you want out of your marriage.  Or at least you want some action on the side.  So, yes, a divorce probably is in your future.

Answer 12

If you're asking advice about your marriage on Yahoo Answers, in Parapsychology no less, then yeah it's pretty safe to say that divorce could be in your future.

Answer 13

nothing paranormal i think, because it does look as though it is you who is fed up and will ultimately call the shots. do you want to put in the effort with the man you chose to marry because you loved him? if so, please go see a relationship counsellor. failed marriages can normally be avoided be learning better communication. if you find you really are done with it, then yes it will happen. please try first. you may just not understand each others needs :)

Answer 14

it is all up to the two of you. people only grow apart out of laziness in the relationship.  if you want it to work, it can and will. myspace, flirting with other people, and being unpleasant all the time is not conducive to a lasting marriage. be the spouse you would want to be married to.

Answer 15

no. that I know of.

Answer 16

I hope you won't take offense, but the first t hing that I was struck by was the furrow of your brow in your avatar. Wow, what is that about? You seem to be a very angry person.... I would worry more about  your personal demeanor more so than a divorce.... do anything you can to stop being so angry.

Answer 17

You may end up divorcing, however you shouldn't seek reinforcement of this idea from perfect strangers that aren't able to see the future.  This is between you and your husband.  If you think it's worth it you could try some counseling.

But if you ask this kind of question here then I think perhaps you've already made up your mind.

Answer 18

I was going to say something mean and sarcastic but Balmudo's brilliant answer removed any need.

Kudos Balmudo...Kudos.

Answer 19

If your asking the question here then your thinking about it allot.  If your thinking about it that much your going to do it sooner or later.  It's not going to get any better so stop wasting your time and get on with it.