Is a long distance relationship good or bad?

Question

my friend started dating a guy in California (we live in Georgia) and it seems like she has her up and down days on how she feels about her boyfriend one day she happy cause she's with him then she's upset then next she asks me what she should do but i never been in a situation like this so i was wondering is it good or bad?

Answer 1

BAD

It causes too much stress!

Answer 2

Depends on the people. Here, have a meat pattie!

Answer 3

One  can avoid frequent, frivolous, petty fights. Good for long relationship  /

Answer 4

i'd say bad from past experiance. Never spend much time with them. You don't know what there up to...because you just never know ehh. Money comes into it aswell, gotta pay to travel. Basically it's stressful. the only good point i could think of being in a relationship like that is that you would cherish the time you get to see each other, but apart from that, there not worth it and most fo the time they don't work out anyways.

Stick with someone closer to home i say..(y)

xo

Answer 5

i think there bad.

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Answer 6

I think (personally) that long distance relationships are extremely hard in that it takes a lot of give and take from both parties...not saying anything might actually be better at this point....just listen and learn.

Answer 7

I think it depends on the people involved. I'm in a long distance relationship myself, but me and my boyfriend try to talk to each other as much as possible and so far it's working.

We miss each other a lot sometimes too.

She probably misses her boyfriend, but as long as she talks to him when she can, and they try to visit each other as much as possible, then there's no reason it can't work.

good luck to her

hope this helps

Answer 8

IN MY EXPERIENCE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK... ONE REASON IS BECAUSE WE ARE ALL HUMAN AND WHEN HUMAN ERGES SURFACE U R BOUND TO CHEAT OR AT LEAST SATISFY THAT URGE AND HOW CAN U GET CLOSE TO A PERSON THATS 100 MILES AWAY AINT HAPPENING.IN ORDER FOR THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP TO WORK U HAVE TO BE HONEST AND WILLING TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT IT IS WHAT IT IS AND ALTHOUGH I KNOW U CANT BE WITH ME I MIGHT GO OUTSIDE OF THE RELATIONSHIP TO GET WHAT U ARE NOT ABLE TO GIVE THAT SHOULD AMKE THE PERSON WANT TO GET CLOSER IF THATS WHAT THEY WANT OTHERWISE IT IS CONSIDERED AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP  

Answer 9

well thats definetely bad. first she doesnt even know if that guy is actually who he says he is. if she has pictures he cdould be sending some of someone else..... and second he could be a rapist or a murderer. i mean, seriously. why would you want to date someone so far away. you cant see them, cant hug them, cant do anything else with them. i dont really see the point in it.