Is a person off limits if they have a girlfriend (i mean he's not married, so how serious could it be)?

Question

idk when i think of "wife" i think - this is closed door, period!

however, when i think "girlfriend" i think - cut the c**p your not important....

Answer 1

Once a person is already committed into a relationship please don't bother to insert yourself in between.

Would you be happy if somebody come in between you and your better-half?

Answer 2

No-one is off-limits!

If soemeone wants to cheat then they will do it whether thay are married or not!

If you manage to 'lure' someone in to cheating on their partner, then they can't have been very committed in the first place.

It's not your victory, it's their predicament - They are the one in a relationship.

Answer 3

Only if you have ethical standards you'd expect others to respect as well

Answer 4

I don't think you can consider someone off-limits if they have a significant other until you know the dynamics and boundaries of their relationship.  This is whether the person is dating OR married.  It seems to me that it's more common today that people are opening up their relationships to swinging, external play partners or even polyamory.  So unless you get the response, "I'm married" or "I have a girlfriend" (indicating they are strictly monogamous, a relationship has possibilities.  Of course, if there is the possiblity of non-monogamous relationships, you must be sure that it is truly an open relationship or if the person is cheating before actually pursuing anything.

Answer 5

If he's NOT married and you just need a short term relationship, then that person is NOT off limits. Who knows... he may be looking for a way out !

If she's married, I usually stay away. Its not worth it regardless of the great experience.

Answer 6

potentially serious enough to have been together 10 years or more and have kids.

Answer 7

I suppose you can attempt to justify any type of behavior if you really want to do it bad enough... it doesn't make it right. Lying and cheating people is bad in any circumstance. When you help someone lie and cheat on something illegal, the legal system doesn't simply consider it "someone else's predicament"... you are an accomplice and just as guilty.

Answer 8

Yes, they should be off-limits. How do you think you get a wife?

If he didn't want to be with her, he should split up, so if he's still with her, either he still likes her and probably, if it's a long term girlfriend, loves her. Or if he's just staying till a better option comes along, he's a coward and decietful and manipulative, and careless of other's emotions. A bad person, in other words, because he is taking up someone elses time, effort and emotions (exactly same goes for women, by the way).

Although the responsibility to remain faithful is on the couple, really (so in this case him), it would be indefensible to cause another person hurt for your own selfish satisfaction of your personal desire. So breaking them up would be bad. If he wants to break up, let him do that himself, first, independantly, like a proper person should.

Answer 9

Yes. Don't do to others what you wouldn't like done to you.

Answer 10

So what are you before you get married?

Would love to see your reaction if you were dating someone for awile and another woman was sniffing around your man.

I am sure your opinion would change.

Answer 11

You just go right ahead and hit on whoever you want dear.  I don't know why everyone tries to make out that the woman is the homewrecker all the time.  I mean why doesn't a man have to be responsible for where he puts his p****r???

You never know maybe you'll be doing the girlfriend a favour.  If he'll s***w around on her now, he'll s***w around in 5 years when they're married.

Just remember though that if he cheated on her, he'll probably have no problem cheating on you.

Answer 12

They should be. If you're the kind of girl who would go after a guy who already has a girlfriend, it won't be long before you're hated by half the women in your town because you're messing with their men. And decent guys will pass you over because they want someone "better" who isn't trying to steal someone else's boyfriend. Good men don't go for women like that. It may be fun for you but it will backfire and you'll end up miserable. And another thing - if the guy is willing to cheat on his girlfriend to be with you, he *will* cheat on you to be with someone else.

Why would you go for a guy who'se taken? Is it so you can satisfy your flagging self-esteem by stealing someone else's man away? If that's the case, then you need to deal with your own issues and leave other women's boyfriends alone.

Answer 13

They could be in a longterm relationship with kids.

Answer 14

If someone is in a committed long term relationship then why would you want to attempt to break it up and hurt someone?  Love is love inside or outside the bonds of marriage.  If you do succeed in whatever you are suggesting you will end up with a man that will not honor you any more than he honored the one before you.  There will always be girls out there who don't mind hurting someone for their own purposes.  You just might be next.

Answer 15

the future

she finds herself a man that treats her like a princess. you spend ages thinking well gee how did the man i stole from someone else leave me for another woman.

besides he might actually be with her because he loves her and fancies her silly and doesn't.want.you

you could pursue him but you'll either end up with a man that's easily swayed or end up looking like a fool

don't you deserve more than that???