Is adoption wrong?

Question

laurie db it is isnt it =)

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

no it is a good thing to do cuz NO KID wants to grow up with out a family

Answer 3

If it was then there would be a whole lot of people who never had parents.  I don't think it's wrong at all.  My dad and my best friend were adopted.  I can't imagine who they would be if they hadn't had the chance to be adopted.

Answer 4

No, adoption is not wrong because its just a way to help find a better home for a child that the birth parents wouldn't be able to give the child. My Huband and sister in law were adopted when they were a couple days old.

Answer 5

no way it gave me life

Answer 6

It should be for YOU, but I bet they'd let you slide by and pass the homestudy anyways.

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thats your type of place I'm sure.

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Answer 7

Adoption is only wrong when there are no children needing to be adopted....

When all children find themselves loved, cared for and in safe families---then there will be no reason for adoption......

.......till then thankfully there are people who will love children and people willing to make families.... Not perfect as no family really is---and hopefully free from any abuse as we would all hope no child suffers.....

If there were No Need there would be no reason for it.... In this day and age there are few excuses and too many ways to take personal responsibility. In the US there are methods for any person to escape oppression and abuse.... too many choices to be accepted and where there is a will there is a way.....

Greed and money connected to adoption is an issue, and there are hundreds of ways that happens.... that is a real issue one I think everyone agrees needs to be gone....

I don't know a single adoptive parent who would want to have a baby or child placed that was not in real true need of adoptive parents. Do some start off thinking in a certain way that isn't sensitive? Yes, but not because they want to harm a child or a child's birth mother....

Adoption is only an issue because there ARE babies and children without parents.....  that's it. If there are no children needing parents then there isn't going to be a problem. Wanting to be a parent isn't wrong--no matter why a family chooses to adopt isn't the issue--the issue is that there are children and babies needing to be adopted......

Adoption is only wrong when a child or baby is in a safe, loving and committed family....

Answer 8

no way, think of all the children that would never have families.

Answer 9

adoption is nowhere near wrong. adoption is giving a child a second chance for a home and  a family, the chance to gain love from ppl that care about them

Answer 10

No. Why would anyone think it is?

Answer 11

Not for an orphaned child.  Duh.

Appropriate new name for you, BTW.

Answer 12

No...I think its a good thing for kids who need good parents.

Answer 13

Hum, I don't know, you tell me....is giving a loving home, food, clothing, loving parents, ect....to a child that wouldn't have it otherwise...wrong? You tell me...is adoption wrong? What a stupid question!

Answer 14

your wrong!  Ignorance kills!

Answer 15

not at all. i was

Answer 16

No!  What would be the alternative???

Answer 17

Without legal adoption there would be so many kids just lost in the system which is very sad. All children deserve a loving home, an education and a family of their own. If they could not be adopted, they may never get that chance.

Answer 18

No adoption is not wrong.....just some people within the industry that are dishonest.

There will always be a need for adoption. Because people will always have children that they do not or cannot take care of them.

Answer 19

No its definitly wrong...there are billions of kids out there who needs parents to love them...and billons out there that are dying because they have no homes and no food...but the question is are you willing to love someone who is not your blood child...

Answer 20

no... adoption is a good thing. children who need parents can get them... i know about 10 adopted kids, all living their lives quite happily.

however, if you mean giving up a kid for adoption then i think the answer varies on where you live, how much money you have, and whether or not there are people who can help you out with your kid

Answer 21

I will start by saying- not all adoptions are good- just like not all biological family situations are good either- however I have to answer this with a question.  For the most part, what would be wrong with adoption?  If the birth mom knows that beyond a shadow of a doubt that she could not raise her child-  there is only one other option and abortion is what should be considered wrong.  My birth mom, and my 2 adopted kid's birth mom thought adoption was right, and here are 3 people that think adoption is right!!!

Answer 22

No. Adoption is a fantastic alternative to abortion and it gives a child a chance to live a life that he/she may not have with their birth parents. If a woman was raped, for example, and got pregnant as a result, she may/may not have hostile feelings toward her child because of the situation in which she got pregnant. Adoption would be a good choice because then her child would have a chance to live with loving, caring people that want a child and are ready for a child. Think of it this way: say your dad ran out on your mom while she was still pregnant. At the time your mom was in her late teens. She became homeless and had no way of taking care of a baby and the only place that she would be able to find shelter is in a home that is not suitable for children. Would you want to live in the terrible situation with your birth mother or would you want your mom to do what is  best for you and put you  up for adoption where there are tons of people that are willing to take you into your home and offer you opportunities that you would have never had with your birth mom. I guess it is all in how you look at it.