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Is all Fair in Love and Dating? ?

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I met this guy about 3 months ago---possibly longer. We starting contacting each other through facebook after seeing each other at a get-together prior to that. Well---besides random facebook messages, and him inviting me to a few clubs/events he was at---we had not had any one-on-one dates. I initially, just thought he was cool. We exchanged #'s and have had maybe 2 convos in the three months we met. Well---about 3 weeks ago---he invited me to his friends house party. Me and the guy whose house it was immediately hit it off. I could tell he was feeling me. Well also, that night (the guy who invited me) and I shared a drunken kiss but since then, we STILL have not gone out on a date or discussed getting to know each other. Well---me and the guy I met from the party have been IMing for about a week, and last night we met up to hang out. (he was with the guy I knew from three months ago and another guy) I was with my female friend. It was awkward because neither us could fight the chemistry and were inseperable the whole evening. Am I wrong to start dating this guy, though him and the other guy know each other? Also---the guy I truly like now and the guy from 3 months back also had JUST met in the last month, so their not really friends. They just hang out all together with another mutal friend...

*Me and the new guy also have a date tonight*

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  1. You do not owe anything to this guy whom you have never gone on even one date with. Tell him you have found someone else, If he was really interested in you, he would have asked you on a date, long before now.  


  2. if the first guy was very interested, he would have made sure you had a date way before and believe me....guys will make sure they have time for a girl they like. do whats good for you. you owe him nothing.

  3. .................and I thought my life was complicated!  Go with your heart.

  4. Date the new guy.

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