My fiancé & I have been together for 7 years. We've planned this nice wedding for May '09, costing $8000. You have to guarantee 55 people & that’s a struggle for us, we really aren't real close to many people. We are both shy so being in front of that many people would be stressful.
We also have a honeymoon planned ($5000) that we REALLY want to do (depending on $)
I'm recently out of work, we have debts to pay,&are still renting (would love to buy a house soon). I'm almost ready to scratch the whole thing. We don't want to wait, we want to get married soon. We are thinking about just having a nice ceremony (at a really beautiful location, nice dress, tux, photography) & just inviting the people most important to us. Then for the reception just going to a local restaurant, no DJ, just food and being together. Do you think someone might regret not having a reception? Or extended family members might feel left out if there is no real reception? Isn't the ceremony the most important?
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